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• Silverfish Problem posted (1 month, 3 weeks) ago
  I have silverfish in my room. They get on my books and clothes so this is what I did: I diluted a t…

• Computer Mic Buzz posted (2 months) ago
  When I try recording things on my Macbook, the playback is accompanied by a constant buzzing sound.…

• I have this theory.. posted (10 months) ago
  Love that is past is not really past. It never goes away. New ones may come sure. Love is like an u…

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• Silverfish Problem
  

  So, do silverfish eat the boric acid?
  - written 1 month, 3 weeks ago

• Silverfish Problem
  

  What is a bugbomb? Also the things are in my room so no dishes there or anything, just clothes and papers. Thanks.
  - written 1 month, 3 weeks ago

• How does a 48 year old female find employment that is worthwhile, without a solid working history or a good resume, in Perth, Western Australia?
  

  There are jobs and jobs. I think you can find something nice if you look for it. Good luck! Have you considered being a Yoga Instructor or working on a Flower shop.
  - written 2 months ago

• Bad grades, bad child, f**ks sake.
  

  You know what, I really admire the clarity with which you see your condition in. It’s very important for you to know where you stand in light of your surroundings and community, because you are the only one who can always be at your own side all the time. You know the truth no matter what anyone else says.
  
  But one thing that I wanted to say is this: clearly you do not comform to certain patterns that other people around you may seem to take to easily. And that is a strong trait. You are an independent thinker. However, here’s the thing, if you really commit to just being yourself you have to get past the idea of being anyone else’s “rival”. Just because you are not with them doesn’t mean you are against them. You said that you resented being cast out from that group yet you also said that they were not true friends. If the group you were talking about considers you an outcast it doesn’t mean you are one, and it doesn’t mean you have to see yourself that way.
  
  In other words, you don’t have to compare yourself to anyone, and most importantly you don’t have to, and must not punish yourself for anything. You can use all the energies you have used before on all these things on your own studies and hobbies instead. You choose your own direction, and you can prove everyone around you wrong simply by minding your own business and being a good person. Keep your focus on your own endeavors, and be polite in general. It’s refreshing when you see someone who is just being themselves, it inspires other people to do the same too.
  
  Lastly, no two places are the same. You’re done with high school now, you can relax now. Just forget about it, you’re new experiences won’t be the same. You’ll get a chance to start anew :)
  - written 3 months ago

• i dont know who to turn to anymore….
  

  [quote Anonymous]ihave left my job and a holiday is out the question due to funding… i cant trust my meantal health support or myfamily as they are all in this together…[/quote]
  
  That sounds pretty paranoid. But like you have control of your actions, even if everyone was indeed against you. Only you can take action for yourself and fix your own situation.
  
  Linuxya has some great advice. To keep moving, however small the steps may be, is the only way to get out of a hole or a dark cave. Do whatever little is possible at a given time. Best of luck.
  - written 3 months ago

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