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• Why do people always judge you on the way you look.?
  

  You are not as fat nor as ugly as you think you are. You are beautiful. Don’t let the media, glamor magazines, or the folks around you try to tell you otherwise. Look yourself in the mirror, and instead of looking for the faults, look for the details on you that you do like. Your eyes, your smile, anything. I spent years hating myself, and yes, I’m a round faced woman with freckles too. Start loving what you like about you and liking what you’re not so fond of.
  - written 1 year, 9 months ago

• I have been on the birth control pill for almost a year.
  

  you have a 0.5% chance of getting pregnant from your boyfriend if you have been regularly using birth control pills. Or in other words, it’s extremely rare for a child to be conceived when on the pill.
  - written 1 year, 9 months ago

• I want to get another rabbit for a companion for my other rabbit.
  

  Rabbit’s DO like companionship but you need to do this smartly. First, you’re rabbit needs to get spayed/neutered. This’ll prevent cancers that happen in 80% of all unspayed females, naughty, often destructive behaviors in males, prevent unwanted litters in case you do introduce a new rabbit, and make said introduction go a lot easier because it cuts down their territorial aggression by a lot. Are Two Rabbits Right For You? You should look at this site, House Rabbit Society. They’ll have many amazingly helpful articles on rabbit care. Including introducing a new rabbit into your life. Personal experience says go slow and be careful, rabbits can be aggressive to one another at first without precaution. Read the site’s articles, you and your bunny will be much better off doing so.
  - written 1 year, 9 months ago

• i just got raped … help…… i am clueless
  

  Go to the nearest emergency clinic, tell them you’ve been raped and you need a rape kit. You can be anonymous. They’ll take samples, give antibiotics, and give emergency contraceptives. You can talk to the police from there. First you need help.
  - written 1 year, 9 months ago

• How do you overcome low self confidence?
  

  Look at yourself in the mirror. Seriously. Look, and say to yourself, “I’m worth it.”
  
  There is no one else that is you. You are special, unique. You can be fat, unemployed, have bad skin, or any other perceived defect, but still, you are worth something. So when you look into that mirror, think of you qualities that you like about yourself. Ignore the bad things for now, first you got to see that you are indeed worthy of all those things that you think are beyond you.
  
  Set up goals, start with short term ones; daily, weekly, monthly, so on and so forth. As you accomplish those, take pride in them: that is something YOU did. Take up drawing or some other hobby that involves creating things, again, it’s something YOU did. If art isn’t your forte, then try making a recipe you haven’t made before or one you’re good at. Find something that fulfills you, even if it doesn’t have any inherent worth.
  
  If you are having issues with your looks, buy a glamor magazine, systematically rip out the pictures of all those beautiful, airbrushed to perfection people and either throw them out into a recycling bin or into the fireplace. You’re more than that and you are in the end, better.
  
  Do your best to not compare yourself with others and their accomplishments. They have their own issues. There is no perfect person. You have worth, you ARE valuable.
  
  “The race is long and in the end it’s only with yourself.” - Mary Schmich
  
  I hope this helps
  - written 1 year, 9 months ago

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