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• So ever since noor and i broke up, we’ve been friends with benefits (fwb, for short) the entire time. posted (1 year, 8 months) ago
  and in case you didn’t know, friends with benefits are people who act like gf/bf minus the dis…

• love… posted (1 year, 9 months) ago
  how can I get over someone i’ve loved for two years and still do… broke up with her last…

• i gave part of myself to this special someone posted (1 year, 9 months) ago
  i broke up with this special someone this special someone still has part of me i miss this special s…

• I used to go out with someone. posted (1 year, 9 months) ago
  I loved this person soo much but as our relationship continued, it kinda went down the drain because…

• anyone here from hong kong? posted (1 year, 9 months) ago
  am in search of new friends lol…

• how do u make a post? posted (1 year, 9 months) ago
  i’m having some difficulty…

• My Love Story posted (1 year, 9 months) ago
  So we started like an ordinary couple, we were both shy, we were both kind of committed to this rel…

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Charles..'s Top (2) Replies by other users' votes

• (1 vote) I’m in a similar situation - or rather somewhat like it.
  

  i think its all good. and now i think u should just give it some slck and just wait. its painful i know but, theres not much of an option. just wait and see the results.
  this maybe painful to realize, but perhaps shes figured that she has a new life and new options? as her lover, it may not be your best choice to not have the chance to take care of her, but at least you know that she is with someone she loves and can rest assured that she will be happy and taken care of
  
  - written 1 year, 9 months ago – voted for by AJF

• (1 vote) Most beautiful place in the world?
  

  responding to the reply u sent me earlier: im doing find thanks =]
  as for the most beautiful place in the world…if it had to be something you can you (as in a place), home. if i could be anything in this world…the most beautiful place is where u feel like you’re in when you’re in a happy, healthy relationship with that special someone.
  
  - written 1 year, 9 months ago – voted for by magic dust

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• My mom has given me the option to miss school today, last week I missed two days, and today is another “bad” day.
  

  get teachers and peers to help u. its really simple, actually.
  
  don’t be afraid to go to school, be brave and face ur problems. compromising your education isn’t worth it, they need a lesson and all you’re doing by telling on them is just helping them grow up.
  - written 1 year, 8 months ago

• It has to do with a girl (obviously).
  

  i think u should just tell her.
  rather than letting her pick on u every day and thinking painfully about whether or not to love or and how to stop loving her, u should just ask her to find out if u have a chance
  if you don’t haf a chance, then you have more of an incenitive to give up and stop
  if you do have a chance, then congratz.
  i personally think that loosing her isn’t good, but it sure beats hafing to suffer headaches becuz of the problems raised by ur interactions
  - written 1 year, 9 months ago

• Here a hard one,if you were dying would tell the people you love or let life go on so you dont get the pitty ?
  

  i wouldn’t tell them
  i’d haf the time of my life with them until the very last day
  and on the day before
  i would give a great speech
  listing out all the things u were grateful for
  saying all the things that you will remember forever
  remembering all the beauty there is in everyone
  and thanking everyone for everything
  i’d haf a will secretly done and all the icky technical monetary issues solved before leaving too.
  - written 1 year, 9 months ago

• how do you tell when you are over someone?
  

  i’m trying to get over someone i was in a relationship for two years with
  its hard
  its painful
  and it takes a lot of self discipline and will power (ironic how i’m mentioning this girl’s nickname, which happens to be willpower)
  but when u realize you’re no longer attracted to this person, and realize that you have no feelings for this person other than ordinary friendship, then you’re pretty much over that person. i’m still waiting for this to happen
  - written 1 year, 9 months ago

• Falling in love over the internet.
  

  love isn’t an equation, its chemistry, which although has some math, it also has other things. if u love him, you love him, what more should anyone say?
  - written 1 year, 9 months ago

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