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• If you were given the chance to fix/change one thing in this world, and it would happen, what would it be? posted (1 year, 9 months) ago
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• (1 vote) so yeah baby might be mine if its not born by friday
  

  It’s sounds like she moves around quite a bit. If there are 5 other potential dads, you might consider as setto said and get a “paternity test”. If it is yours…go and get some custody issues worked out right away. If it is not yours…tough decision. I would tend to move away from the situation, if she is seeing that many guys and unprotected…..well, you may get a lot more than you expected. Life is tough enough when two people are committed to each other and have a common goals, you will need each other to weather the storms of life. It sounds like you may not have a solid starting point with her yet. Think about it.
  
  - written 1 year, 9 months ago – voted for by Desert Sand

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• My partner and I were discussing raising children and the role that religion would play in their lives.
  

  [quote lillian.torell]ChicagoGirl, I think we are both at that transitioning to what religion/philosophy/way of life really suits us. Hopefully we have that one sorted out prior to our children needing spiritual direction!:)[/quote]
  
  Truth being said…you can’t teach values, you can live by them and by your example your children will either asscribe to them or not. The main reason children accept the example is because they can see the value. You can send them to 100 different schools, but if those who teach, don’t live the values…the kids are too smart and will sense a hypocritical mentality and flush that teaching down the…you have to teach by example, coupled with the why you do what you do. Honestly, this is the only real way to do it right.
  
  Hopefully you will meet eye to eye with your partner and come to agree on the example you will set for your children so that they can learn how to live. It’s not the school that does it, its you. Best of luck getting to this end
  - written 1 year, 9 months ago

• Every ending is a new beginning.
  

  take your time, rebounding from one relationship to another is never a good idea. Take the time to get past the baggage created by your last relationship so you can truly enjoy a new one. If you explain this to your new friend, he should appreciate it, and hopefully respect it. All the best to you
  - written 1 year, 9 months ago

• Is their a huge lack of human compassion in the world or is it just me?
  

  hey tat, the world seems faster as far as a pace, but truthfully every generation seems to have their unique share of “the busy”. All kidding aside, it has always been hard to find “real” good friends, the ones that can last a life time. I think the real problem is the same as it has always been, friendship requires that: PART ONE 1. In order to have friends, you must first be friendly (a lot of personal sacrifice of your own desires and opinions) 2. Two must agree to walk together (it takes common ground and similar interests, likes, ways of doing things…etc) 3. Its about respect (if you don’t see how to treat each other and show the proper respect for the others life and what they expect from a relationship) more….
  - written 1 year, 9 months ago

• Can two opposing truths be true at the same time?
  

  who said they can’t???
  - written 1 year, 9 months ago

• Help Please!
  

  [quote Anonymous]She left her last boyfriend coz he wanted sex. i think. She thinks the guy has a good reputation but i know they dont. i have told her through messages but not in person yet.[/quote] Sounds like she isn’t a pushover, you have to trust her but, tell her how you really feel about her.
  - written 1 year, 9 months ago

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