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My brother has purchased homes, fixed them up and rented them out. He has been stuck with tenants bills, and their mess, along with his money vultures calling for payment. The only thing that I can think of if you still have this uninhabited property that is in decent living conditions, contact HUD. Get it certified and deemed livable and get a tenant in there. As for the catch up game. I don’t know. My brother got behind with four houses and then lost his full time job on top of that. He send large amounts of money to the vultures, but they refused the payments since they were talking foreclosure. They would rather throw people out on the street than actually helping them.

if you were not meant to be without her, then you are not meant to forget her. I give you the quote of the late Jeff Buckley, “Lonely is the room, the bed is made, the open window lets the rain in
Burning in the corner is the only one who dreams he had you with him
My body turns and yearns for a sleep that will never come

It’s never over, my kingdom for a kiss upon her shoulder
It’s never over, all my riches for her smiles when i slept so soft against her
It’s never over, all my blood for the sweetness of her laughter
It’s never over, she’s the tear that hangs inside my soul forever”

I know. I am such a smooze. As I said, maybe you aren’t meant to be without her.
Dating others will be hard if this is the case. If you feel that you have to really end your feelings, approach her, be in her presence. Sometimes it is the reality of the moment that defines what you are actually feeling. I had to find out the hard way. Imagine meeting the lover in your dreams, have a few months of utter enjoyment, then 9-11 takes them from you. Military that is, and they are just a twelve hour phone call away for three years. I found out that in being beside him after all that time of letters, email and phone calls, that I could never love someone so deep, than I did when I finally held him again.

I hope this longggggg note has helped in some way.

If you have any medical background and volunteer work, perhaps place an ad in the J&C about assisting the elderly in their home. Offer to play cards, read, watch TV with them. Being a companion is not a cure for a physical disease, but it does cure the emotional disease of loneliness. Start out as a volunteer, have recommendations and references, previous job history and a good reason why someone should trust you in their home. Call the United Way or Area 4. They may know of actual job opportunities and grants for college. Don’t forget Americorps. They are a volunteer service helping the elderly. The organization can help you with Nursing school and such. That’s my just my philosophy though.