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• I woke up with dark red cicles under my eye. posted (1 year, 5 months) ago
  I look like i have been punched out but i havent. does anyone know what would cause this ?…

• I just don’t trust him. posted (1 year, 6 months) ago
  He hasent been unfaithfull to me in a year (since he came clean about his indescresions). But now th…

• I’ve been trying to get help dealing with my anxitety, and paranoia. posted (1 year, 6 months) ago
  there is however a 6 months waiting list even to just have an intake evaluation. its getting worst d…

• Many people have told me that a way to feel less depressed is to start planning. posted (1 year, 6 months) ago
  Make small but realistic plans to look forward to in the future. For me that has been very helpfull.…

• is it possible to deactivate or delete your profile. posted (1 year, 6 months) ago
  ?…

• What do you think a lie is? posted (1 year, 6 months) ago
  Is it ever necessary to lie?…

• Does anyone know what deterministic mechanism means. posted (1 year, 7 months) ago
  i am writting a paper of Karl MArx’s theory behind history but i am stuck because i cannot fin…

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• I woke up with dark red cicles under my eye.
  

  no i;ve been sleeping really well latley. I thought maybe because i have sinus problems it may have put presure on my eyes and busted some capillaries. is that possible.
  - written 1 year, 5 months ago

• I am not really THAT suicidal.
  

  other than all your acomplishments do you anything that makes you happy? Anything aside from what you are socially expected to do. Sometimes i feel like i just go through the motions. I have a great life but it doesnt seem like enough. Mas1s is right you do need to talk to someone figure out what is trigering this. from my interpretation it sounds like you arent very happy despite all the things you have accomplished. and thats not nessecarly bad thing it might just mean that what you are doing is not what you want to do.
  - written 1 year, 5 months ago

• I just don’t trust him.
  

  i talked to him, he said he understand and he wont spend time with her alone. thanks guys
  - written 1 year, 6 months ago

• I just don’t trust him.
  

  [quote rstarzboxer]Ummmm…. if they are still attracted to each other that much, does he really then truly love you? I think you need to look much deeper into this and maybe face the hard truth.[/quote]
  
  He says he doesnt find her attractive.
  I guess my issue and im not goign to lie about it is that I’ve been lied to so many times that i just kind of expect it to be a lie.
  
  
  
  [quote Da-11]Oh, I’m sorry that does change things a bit.
  
  If you can’t trust him, then there is no point in the relationship. However your feelings aren’t unwarranted and as a cheater he does deserve them. What you should do is tell him you really aren’t comfortable but that you will not stop him from seeing this girl and that its up to him. Talk to him about not argue as he has not done anything wrong and you already forgave him for his past. When you tell him you aren’t comfortable make sure you tell him its because of his past with this girl and not just because she is a girl. Then let him do what he wants, you forgave him and now you need to live with it.
  
  
  However my opinion is that he should consent to your wishes, not because you told him you don’t want him to go, but because he shouldn’t want to go knowing that it upsets you.
  
  Good luck.[/quote]
  
  your right i did forgive him for those things, i should just suck it up and be a big girl. I like to think i follow the philosophy - i’m only accountable for my actions the rest i cant control. its hard to try not to. there is always that possibility. we live in a world were anything is possible and its hard to deal with it when you just want to know for sure that things will work out the way you want them too.
  
  thanks tho. alot of the things you have said make sense
  - written 1 year, 6 months ago

• I just don’t trust him.
  

  the girl in question hasent been one of the girls he’s betrayed me with. They just used to hang out and fool around. and its for that reason that im worried i mean they used to be attracted to each other and they would be alone. that to me spells a receipe for disaster. She knows he has a girlfriend but went through the trouble to get his number by contacting like 5 people. I think its a bit to much effort to just hang out (but im not sure if im just being paranoid). I dont think he would do anything but if she did i dont think hed turn her down.
  - written 1 year, 6 months ago

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