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• what’s the meaning of life?
  

  the moment is that there really is, the past is a collection of memories and the future is a collection of hopes and expectations. neither exists unless we’re here now. thank you for reminding me of that.
  - written 1 year, 9 months ago

• I consider my self beyond good and evil
  

  there are people who ‘hurt others’ everywhere, not just in your country. but as you cannot control anythng that anyone else does, so too no-one can make you feel anything. you can choose not to be affected by what anyone else does, instead you can offer everyone love and then all you will see is peace. you will see people who are hurting themselves, feeling completely alone and prooving it to themselves by pushing everyone who loves them away in the pursuit of what they see as happiness or trying to protect themselves from future hurt.
  everyone is of value, whether you like it or not. the reality of the situation is that we would not know what happiness was if we did not have saddness to compare it to. the same works with everything, there needs to be opposites so that you can see both sides and choose which you prefer. unfortunately some people have trouble understanding that. all they can see and feel is the negative, they get stuck there. if you have managed to find solice in yourself and a sense of peace then instead of begrudging those who have not you should feel proud of yourself for finding that and offer a bit of hope to others who have yet to find it. but if you continually get affected by others who have not yet then you truely havnt found any peace…keep searching, internally because that is all you truely know.
  ;peace
  - written 1 year, 9 months ago

• what’s the meaning of life?
  

  i like to think of my life as not just my own but as a contribution to the whole of society and hopefully the world. thinking about the world i want to live in as well as the world i want to create for my children and their children etc. unfortunately, with the world as it is atm it seems that preservation of what we’ve yet to destroy seems like the priority over what we want to create.
  - written 1 year, 9 months ago

• I consider my self beyond good and evil
  

  you cant control anything that anyone else does, all you have control over is yourself. so, if you want peace, then try searching inside before trying to perfect the outside world. i think youll find that the reason that the external conflict affects you so much is because you havnt found the internal peace that youre lookings for. learn to accept, remember and try to live by the saying live and let live. as much as ur entitled to your own thoughts, beliefs and way of life, so too is everyone else who is on this planet, thats the point of free will.
  perhaps try asking why ur so judgemental of everyone else and why u think that ur so right?
  personally im one of the invaluable drug addicts…unfortunately i seem to be of more value to the contribution of overall peace to society than u do. maybe you should try taking some drugs and opening your mind and losing your ego abit then get back to me and let me know how ur going on the non-judgementalness and acceptance of everyones, including urself, choices.
  ;peace
  - written 1 year, 9 months ago

• I’m in first year at university but I do not want to continue because I know this course is not right for me, what should I do?
  

  leave and definately take some time to get to know urself better, then ull be able to make a choice based on what u want rather than wat u think u want or what other people want for u
  - written 1 year, 9 months ago

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