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the moment is that there really is, the past is a collection of memories and the future is a collection of hopes and expectations. neither exists unless we’re here now. thank you for reminding me of that.

there are people who ‘hurt others’ everywhere, not just in your country. but as you cannot control anythng that anyone else does, so too no-one can make you feel anything. you can choose not to be affected by what anyone else does, instead you can offer everyone love and then all you will see is peace. you will see people who are hurting themselves, feeling completely alone and prooving it to themselves by pushing everyone who loves them away in the pursuit of what they see as happiness or trying to protect themselves from future hurt.
everyone is of value, whether you like it or not. the reality of the situation is that we would not know what happiness was if we did not have saddness to compare it to. the same works with everything, there needs to be opposites so that you can see both sides and choose which you prefer. unfortunately some people have trouble understanding that. all they can see and feel is the negative, they get stuck there. if you have managed to find solice in yourself and a sense of peace then instead of begrudging those who have not you should feel proud of yourself for finding that and offer a bit of hope to others who have yet to find it. but if you continually get affected by others who have not yet then you truely havnt found any peace…keep searching, internally because that is all you truely know.
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i like to think of my life as not just my own but as a contribution to the whole of society and hopefully the world. thinking about the world i want to live in as well as the world i want to create for my children and their children etc. unfortunately, with the world as it is atm it seems that preservation of what we’ve yet to destroy seems like the priority over what we want to create.

you cant control anything that anyone else does, all you have control over is yourself. so, if you want peace, then try searching inside before trying to perfect the outside world. i think youll find that the reason that the external conflict affects you so much is because you havnt found the internal peace that youre lookings for. learn to accept, remember and try to live by the saying live and let live. as much as ur entitled to your own thoughts, beliefs and way of life, so too is everyone else who is on this planet, thats the point of free will.
perhaps try asking why ur so judgemental of everyone else and why u think that ur so right?
personally im one of the invaluable drug addicts…unfortunately i seem to be of more value to the contribution of overall peace to society than u do. maybe you should try taking some drugs and opening your mind and losing your ego abit then get back to me and let me know how ur going on the non-judgementalness and acceptance of everyones, including urself, choices.
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leave and definately take some time to get to know urself better, then ull be able to make a choice based on what u want rather than wat u think u want or what other people want for u

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ive been questioning the same thing quite alot myself recently, and ive gotten a few different responses from a few different people. one was that life is about experience whilst you get the chance to experience. then there was that the meaning of life is to give life meaning, which i think is just a fancy way of saying that life is what you make it. i also got told that its about getting to know yourself; finding yourself, as you want to be not as you’ve been conditioned or raised to be. then theres evolution, that the meaning of life is to consciously evolve into a higher being, since we seem to be able to avoid ’survival of the fittest’ by manipulating our environment how we choose. personally, i believe that everyone has a destiny and that the meaning of life is to discover and fulfill your destiny. thats why everyone has their own talents, they have the ability to contribute to the whole of humanity in a different way. i call it finding your piece to be able to acheive peace
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