justme73's reply history at Help.com

Do you see that you need help too? Behaving like a victim and enabling her is not going to help her get through this. She needs you to be strong, not a push over.

Let her know how much you love her and want to go to couples therapy to help you two reconnect. Maybe then the therapist will help her see what she cannot and possibly get her involved in some other kind of one on one therapy without medication. Her and that therapist can decide if medication is best for her at that time.

Don’t go at her like it’s me vs. you or that she has a problem. You have a “we” “us” problem. You need her effort to help your relationship with her.