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• a think i need some help..
  

  it will only get worse when you’re married. You can still love her but i really, if your both un happy now, please, for both your sakes, end it now. You can still be her firned, be there when she falls, hopefully she will do the same for you. but dont walk out of her life compleetly. she needs to cope with the death. I say u should end it and just love her as a faithful friend.
  - written 7 months, 3 weeks ago

• So say there’s this girl who thinks she’s
  

  Have her do something that will make her feel uselfull and full or worth. maybe a charity or tutoring after school, anything to do with helping other people. trust me, i feel like such a great person no matter what other ppl say when i help someone else. i feel full of promise and value. i like help.com becuase it makes me feel good when someone else is better off becuase of me. its means alot.
  - written 7 months, 3 weeks ago

• So, I have a problem.
  

  I feel the exact same way. I feel like a freak. no one at school talks to me and I feel so alone. All the guys are too buzy screwing the meangirls. I just dont understand. I think im a good person. I know im not hott but I dont think im freakishly ugly. I am nice and i love to helpn people. I believe I am a smart girl but no one cares. The only people who notice me are the bullyies. girls can be sooo mean. they pick on me becuase im 16 and only 4ft ll inches tall. I know that it is weird but just becuase im short doesnt give anyone the right to cutt me down further. I feel so small. I am caught at a crossroads. I want to cutt, i think about it all the time. I would rather feel pain and know that i can heal than to break down and cry. Im also christian, the bible says not to damage the body for the body is the temple of christ. So im screwed. I wouldnt dare tell anyone else though, they would pick on me even more. Call me emo and what not. I cant stand it when people talk about, i hear other girls gossip about how stupid it its. ITS NOT STUPID. it may seem crazy to other poeple but they wont ever know until they feel whats it like to be alone, depressed, scared, tired, and hurt. My view is….if your going to make me hurt, then make the pain real. Emtional pain is the worst pain in the world. I feel as if i cant bare it. I have no advice here, im just glad there is someone out there to whom i can relate. Another thing, i personally think this is stupid too, just read on……I want to cut really bad but im too scared too becuase im scared ill do it wrong and really hurt myself, im scared god is watching me, i dont want my parents to find out, and im scared of the pain. Like, i wanna feel the pain but im still scared of it. do you all think that is stupid? i feel stupid.
  - written 7 months, 3 weeks ago

• I need help with my friend.
  

  instead of trying to cheer her up and trying to forget about her problems. Ask her whats got down, aks how her day was. Maybe she is depressed or bi polar. you never know until u sit down and have a talk with your friend. explain that you are there for her but it bothers you how she gets so moody. she may not realize it.
  - written 7 months, 3 weeks ago

• i have a problem can you help?
  

  Im 16 and I have a stuffed dog that I cant sleep without. I have had it since I was 3. Look, if they are always picking on you, maybe they aren’t real friends. Have you told them it bothers you? if they continue, there are a few things u can do. You can find diff. friends. Find dirt on your current (friends) and give them a little taste of what you go through. then explain that you feel the same way. or if your religous, pray about it.
  - written 7 months, 3 weeks ago

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