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• I am bi-polar, depressed, borderline personality disordered or whatever. posted (1 year, 9 months) ago
  I am so sick of the way I think. I am never good enough. No I do ever gets anywhere. I am angry at m…

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• What is your favorite funny wikiHowl?
  

  Get into a Girls Pants!! So hilarious!
  - written 1 year, 9 months ago

• My wife is depressed and it is having a bad effect upon our relationship.
  

  She has to go to get help. She has to have a correct diagnosis. What if she has a mood disorder? She needs the proper medication to deal and then the time it takes to learn coping skills and to get o the root of problems. Counselors are great they are totally neutral.
  
  My husband sees a counselor because I am bi-polar and I am hard to understand even though he loves me more than anything.
  - written 1 year, 9 months ago

• Can i live with the bad images of my girlfriends death?
  

  Can you die with them?
  
  Why dont you seek out a medium so you can put it behind you and realize that she is still alive just not in a body right in front of you anymore. When you see that she still exists then you can focus on what is here and now and not hang on to the last memory you had which happens to also be super painful. Talk to her. Put out some powder on a desk or something and ask her to write in it with just some fingerstrokes or something. Ask for a bilboard that matters or to tlak to you in some radio songs. Py attention to the clock times when you happen to glance at them. You just gotta replace the current thought s with new ones that are more positive. And all that lame hard to accept just be happy crap. I cant imagine your pain. I never lived through that. But, she is still alive and still very much herself so research that out I would.
  
  I was gonna kill myself. I had it planned. But before I drove 10 hours to a medium conference. I said to God and who ever else angels peoples etc on the other side that I was going hope for a sign that my life mattered or else I was outtie. At the conference the medium was talking to a lady two people down from me, their dad was coming through but then he stopped and said, ” Your dad wants me to acknowledge the someone to your right that is contemplating suicide.” I wanted to shrink, and die I never realized that I would be so embarrassed in that crowd, but they handed me a mic and told me to stand up when I was sobbing and obviously the person. I was told that I mattered and that if I did kill myself, I would be more trapped and that it isnt a solution.
  
  Im glad your post helped me remember that.
  - written 1 year, 9 months ago

• I am bi-polar, depressed, borderline personality disordered or whatever.
  

  oh. well sorry about that then.
  - written 1 year, 9 months ago

• I am bi-polar, depressed, borderline personality disordered or whatever.
  

  Im sorry James I was trying to comment to the person who said my post was unhelpful. I was actually trying to find a way to say thank you to you.
  People dont understand. One minute I am losing my mind and the whole world is hopeless and then the next I am back to the fakeness and trying to pretend it all didnt happen.
  
  You are a very kind person to take the time to talk to a person who is somewhat of an untouchable for most people. Depression is seen as weakness and something people should just choose to snap out of, but if it was that simple, more people would just knock it off. But, in my case the factors causing it are multiple, it comes from being treated poorly over and over, as well as the weather, hormones and brain chemistry. Sometimes all are hitting me and sometimes just one. But, I just am at a point where I dont know where to go from here. You know?
  
  I am sorry, about your own depression. It isnt easy being the man of the hosue and dealing with it either. It is more socially acceptable for a woman to be deemed “crazy” and an emotional problem but men are supposed to be fearless and rigid steel traps incapable of weakness of sorts. So, thats an added pressure that makes it so difficult for men to actually get the help they need. I hope you have a good support system where you are.
  
  You are right I do need a doctor. I have just seen so many shrinks over the years and it is so hard to find one ready to stick things out for the long haul and have enough knowledge and kindness and patience to steer you in the right direction. I am praying for a good doctor now and hoping that I can come to live with the issues in my head.
  
  Thank you for the thoughtful reply.
  - written 1 year, 9 months ago

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