puertaamarilla's reply history at Help.com

much, MUCH more beautiful for some than for others, and not always by choice.

Try to focus on one problem at a time. Isolate them from whatever in your life you consider good. The main reason problems are so problematic is because we tend to lose our heads in their line of fire. Don’t get mixed up, and never hold the attitude that something is irreparable. Identify you problems and attack them.