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strange nightly dances and singing…

Through our greatest strengths come our greatest weakness.

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How are you doing today sweetie ???

…and how ’bout this…if he sits on a computer all day…find a way he can make money via his computer…there are alot of computer jobs from home out there.

Wow…considering I am currently suffering from empty nest…I can’t even begin to imagine my 24yo still living with me. He’s been out of the house for years, thank Gawd! So too are his two younger brothers..

hmmm? What would I do in your situation?? I would move out LOL..no, seriously give him a deadline…say two or weeks a month…if he hasn’t found a job…tell him he has to go. Now how in the heck do you really kick him out?? Well you pack his stuff, set it out on the porch and change the locks (if you have to)..Yes, this is horrible, this is his wake up call, he will realize you are serious and he’ll become more earnest in seeking a job or he can live his *** out on the streets for sometime… until he realizes life isn’t fair and will hopefully find his own way. If you don’t do something soon, you really are just enabling him to be as he is. You really need to put your foot down, and soon!

Feelings are never right or wrong they’re real AND never based in intellect. It is sad that he treats his kids this way. One day it will return to bite him in the ***. It seems to me that perhaps the duality of his life has caused feelings of guilt, which he’d rather try hard to forget, meaning that what he cannot see doesn’t exist. So in the end the kids are the ones that are shortchanged. It shouldn’t matter what the NEW wife has to say, those are his kids and even though you two aren’t together any longer doesn’t mean he has a right to give up his responsibilities for his kids. However, you can’t make him want to be a better father. He will either step up to the challenge or you will have to be the strong single mother you already are. So to answer your question, yes you have every right to feel the way you do.

ok that was suppose to be anonymous…LOL

It’s more of a feeling as I do not have any solid evidence in which to base my suspicions on. A friend of mine told me earlier this evening that he over heard my boyfriend talking, a few months back, at the bar we both go to. He claims he heard him bragging about this girl. That was it…no more details.

Boyfriend…He’s just sketchy, gets very angry when I even ask about his cell phone or who has called, yet the few times I have got a hold of his phone there aren’t any # I don’t recognize. I dunno…He cheated on his wife…his sister-in-law told his brother that they have been having s*x for the last 13 years. He’s gets extremely angry when I even so much as ask him about where he was…he’s an alcoholic, and his mood swings are often unbearable…I believe I am in love with him, yet I for whatever reason, again having NO proof, can’t trust anything he says or does. Perhaps I am just paranoid…perhaps not…

It’s more of a feeling as I do not have any solid evidence in which to base my suspicions on. A friend of mine told me earlier this evening that he over heard my boyfriend talking, a few months back, at the bar we both go to. He claims he heard him bragging about this girl. That was it…no more details.
Boyfriend…He’s just sketchy, gets very angry when I even ask about his cell phone or who has called, yet the few times I have got a hold of his phone there aren’t any # I don’t recognize. I dunno…He cheated on his wife…his sister-in-law told his brother that they have been having or*l sex for the last 13 years. He’s gets extremely angry when I even so much as ask him about where he was…he’s an alcoholic, and his mood swings are often unbearable…I believe I am in love with him, yet I for whatever reason, again having NO proof, can’t trust anything he says or does. Perhaps I am just paranoid…perhaps not…

waiting approval…???