jessica.fre's reply history at Help.com

Hi.. You really do need to take time out and get your head together. DON’T talk to anyone you know any further. The feelings that you are experiencing is due to doubts that you are with the right person. Think about why you are with your boyfriend and not your ex. Think about what makes you miss your ex and why you miss him. If you miss him only everytime you have a disagreement with your boyfriend then this is normal. I still miss my ex husband when I have a disagreement and I divorced him 12 years ago. I do not know your personal circs so I can’t tell you to go off somewhere to think.. work and wotnot may interfere. Can you take time away from the relationship? All I know is that you need to have a gab with yourself.. and don’t do anything until you are sure.