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• i found a lot of things in my daughters room last night.
  

  My cousin got birth control from Planned Parenthood, because she gave them a fake note requesting them allegedly written from her parents.
  
  People can usually get condoms for free at PP too.
  
  The movie Juno is really popular right now. The song is topping the charts right currently. Just because your daughter likes the movie, doesn’t mean she’s inspired by a pregnant teen. She might just like the songs in the movie.
  
  You should really make a plan to sit and talk to your daughter. You should plan carefully, because you don’t want her to feel like you are blaming her for things (which it sounds like you are doing… by what you wrote).
  
  Remember that teenagers are becoming sexually active nowadays and it’s not just her. Also remember that you should not ask her apparently obvious questions, such as: “Are you having sex,” because apparently she is.
  
  In my opinion, you should start the conversation by saying: “Honey, I went into your room and I found condoms and birth control pills. I’m not sure how you were able to get a hold of them, but I want you to know that although I am dissapointed that you are having sex at such a young age, I am happy that you you were aware of the dangers of getting pregnant and catching a disease.”
  
  Then you should talk to her about relationships and what she should watch out for.
  - written 6 months ago

• Hi im a 22 year old male and im not sure what to do with my life.
  

  Most private stores/companies do not perform a criminal background check on you.
  
  Second, if I was in your position, I would go to a community college and pursue a nursing degree. You can get your degree in 4-5 years and nurses make a lot of money and make a difference in the lives of others.
  
  Community college is not that expensive, and you may qualify for student loans that can help you with your credit card bill.
  
  You may also consider filing for bankruptcy. It stays on your record for 7 years, I think, so it’ll affect your ability to buy a car, a house, or lease an apartment. However, if you don’t plan on moving around or buying new cars/homes in awhile, this shouldn’t be a problem.
  - written 6 months ago

• how do i just start talking to her(the girl i like
  

  Girls like honesty (regardless of what the movies portray). You should go up to her one day (in passing) and tell her that you want to see a movie this weekend, but all your friends are busy… and since you’ve always seen her around but have never gotten a chance to get to know her, if she would want to go out with you.
  - written 6 months ago

• Please help me someone.
  

  First, I would ask your friend to try to find your sister’s ad again. Second, I would confront your sister.
  
  If your friend was looking at an escorting service website… what is there to ask him? You know exactly why he was looking at them.
  - written 6 months ago

• i’m reaaly hungry can anyone give me a quick and easy sweet snack recipe that takes under 10 minutes?
  

  If you are really hungry, I usually like to snack on a bowl of cereal in organic soy milk. It’s easy and shouldn’t take you more than 1 minute to prepare.
  - written 6 months ago

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