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I am a single mother with no real education to speak of, I homeschool my 8 yr old son, and have a 2 yr old daughter I refuse to pawn off to a babysitter…I am an associate with Usana Health sciences and i am successful at it, without comprimising my time with my children, I am supporting them. I am not going into debt, I am creating a life for us all. Check out the site, and If I can help you I will.

Peace and good luck
Sounds like it is time to stop leaving it to chance and take control of your fianncial future hon, you can do it
Peace and Blessings

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Hey I am GOD too, nice to meet you! Love to connect with other aspects of myself! LOl! You can not ask a question to which you don’t already know the answer…..Be still and ask yourself if there is a god, and listen up!

Hey

check these out if you havn’t already,
I get the feeling you’ll vibe on them
dvd’s
What the bleep do we know
Down the rabbit hole
The secret- my personal favorite….Love quantumn physics myself…but spirit fits right in there, as most scientists and theplogians are now in agreement over
peace

Faith…In my heart, In my abilities, In my relationship to all that is, In the process…Understanding the way my life seems to work, the principles by which its unfolding continues, time and time again….In the divine, however you want to look at it.

From my Sons perspective, Faith, in the laws of the universe, the principle of oneness, the law of attraction, knowing interconnectivity intrinsicly…understanding what is…

To some….understanding what or who has your back in this life…Call it what you want, It is divine, It is present, and we have faith/understanding of it, through our experience. Don’t get caught up on the words, they are merely symbols directing your consciousness towards that which they represent.

Peace

I concur with innerdialogue….Whilst going through an emotional time, my partner guides me to stray from the mud and come into the waterfall…It is all “where” we choose to be, each and every moment. We get what we focus on…

Having said that, two things…1. emotional and stable don’t belong in the smae senetence…emotions are about motion, and change… Observe them for what they are , energy coming and going….we don’t have to suffer them.. For me it is important to be able to feel fear (for instance) but not be incapacitated by it…and even more so, to be in a relationship with someone else who is already aware of this..

And 2. when the shoe was on the other foot, and my partner was feeling threatened by the intensity of our love for one another and became, like you describe your partner, almost scared off and unsure, I let him kno that I couldn’t work with that, that he should take some time and feel out what it was he wants to build. cause “I don’t knows”, or “maybe’s”
or “I am not sure’s” are not a foundation for building a relationdhip.

In love we need to have strong vision. Make no mistake that in an intimate relationship, old stuff is going to surface…I call this making room, that old stuff doesn’t serve your present growth, and it has to go…We don’t have to relive it, just observe it leaving…her fears are based on a previous experience or understanding…If she wants to be with you, she has to be diligent, and when those feelings arise, she has to want her future more than this old pattern enough to break it and replace it with something beautiful…Pull the weeds, plant flowers…

If she is aware of this and is working on it, there is great potential for all her relationships…If she is hiding behind it and playing victim, then there is no future in any of her relationships.

I always reccomend we work on ourselves and watch how our outside relationships change.

For example, I was in an abusive relationship…I thought he was unfair, what I learned was I had little self respect and I was accepting this treatment therby giving this person permission to continue the abusive behavior. we were bothe robbed of our joy, and it was a co creation. There was no victim in the situation…

I hope some of this helps…Love is the only real work to be done on our planet. It is for the brave. It is deep sacred work, and it is noble. Keep your chin up, and know that love is not something you fall in, it is something you stand strong in, and as long as you are true to standing strong in your love for yourself, all else will fall into line for you..

Deep peace to you sweet heart

Um I meant by any extent of the word, not world, that is an interesting type i, i mean o! oh boy, it is going to be one of those days is it?lol!
Blessings

My Avatar is actually a new form I have adopted for the purpose of writing on this site…I am not religious by any extent of the world, although I have studied the bible and different religions, I consider myself spiritual….I chose it because whoever she is, she is a super momma godess, and I am too! lol!

Peace beautiful children!
Love you all!

Hey, You know your truth, and it comesacross loud and clear in your letter…Follow your Bliss honey..You know what cycle you are going to put in motion if you ignore your truth, and you know what will be in th eback of your mind, overshodaowing all you do, and feel. On the other hand, if you follow your intuition, doors are going to fly open, life will transform, and the universe will organize itself for you, you will be surprised how things manifest. You know this already, I can hear it in your words. Hope the reflection helps…

Have you seen The dvd the secret? Find a copy
Peace and good luck on your journey

When I was in a very similar situation, I was heavy in my heart feeling my little boys pain, wondering where his father was. I went to great lengths to bring my son to see his dad, driving great distances each day, loosing sleep and time, energy and money. I grieved alot and ultimately shorted myself on prescious energy I could have used in my relationship with my son. His father did not come around and now, because I instilled the ideal that you should love your father, in my child, he worships the ground he walks on, and can do no wrong in his eyes. Problem being, he lies to him consistantly and my son refuses to acknowledge it. He is forever letting him down, breaking promises, not showing up, you name it. I realized that my sons relationship with his father has little to do with me, meaning I am not responsible for it. Don’t get me wrong, if it was ever a saftey issue or something like that, I’d very much make it my responsibility. I just mean, there is time, and as my son has gotten older, he has found his voice and now, he can communicate what he is feeling to his dad, he can call him, he can make plans. And pleasently enough, he attracts male energy in forms other than his fathers and has created his own relationships that give him what he needs. My advice would be to relax and let things be as they are. Accept them, then the energy can shift. Use your energy to create a great relationship with your child, the time goes by so fast, you will kick yourself for missing it.

When my daughter came along, and her father cheated on our family and left us, I had implemented this understanding… There is a Zen quote that says something like this…”If he comes home, welcome him…If he does not, do not persue….I survived the second time, and so has my daughter.

Men make a choice to be men, or ignore thier calling…You just focus on the joy that you have and cultivate it, pretty soon, there will be no abscence of anything in the world of you and your child, and that love that overflows can’t help but attract more, and possibly someone who feels called to be there, and that is what you bothe deserve. Don’t focus on what you don’t have, you’ll just end up with more of the same. Be greatful for what you do have…

Have you ever seen the movie the secret? I highly reccomend this flick…Find a copy…Bless you and your sacred little one!
Love to you!

One step at a time hon…You have your goals in place, and that is big. And you have your “why” in place as well, You have to trust that you are capable of manifesting what you need. You are aware of what those needs are. You have made it this far. Obviously you are a survivor and now you are rising up and moving beyond that…Soon you will be thriving. Don’t worry if it doesn’t all happen at once. You are at a crossroads of sorts. Step into the new and unknown, or stay where it does not serve your highest good…Focus your conscious attention on what you ARE bringing about for yourself, and just observe how the opportunities begin to present themselves, giving you a means to achieve what you need. Focus on the goal, don’t stress the details, the universe will hash that part out, just know what you want and be passionate about why. Strong passionately felt emotion, added to focus, intensifies the energy that will attract what you need…Remember…Manifesting isn’t about bringing about things that are not already there, it is about choosing to acknowledge what is. If you need these things, they are there for you. Be gentle to your sacred self, celebrate your wins…You are ending a viscious cycle that has tried to take your power from you for a long time, as a result you are learning about your personal power and that is admirable. This step will change your life forever, and because of your awareness regarding the situation, you are past the point of no return…You can’t exactly sit there and take any more of this can you….Know you are not alone and there are others sending you their strength and love…My guess is, you are a power house and that is why there had to be a dynamic of control over you in your earliest teachings, so that you could come to know how powerful you are…Do what you know is right. Stand in your truth, and the rest will fall into place. The universe wants for you what you want for yourself…Blessed be!

Well hon, please stop beating yourself up….You are right, you are supposed to be on top,you are supposed to be successful, and you will be, so relax…Beating yourself up is not serving you, is it? I am going to venture out here and say I bet it doesn’t leave you feeling to hot does it…Listen I have been there, and in moments, I can still go there, and it is why I chose to get into the line of work I am in. We are all here to become great at being ourselves. Stop looking outside of yourself for validation…Until we know ourselves the world is only context in which we can see clearly who we are. By that I mean the world is going to show you everything you are not, try to distract you from yourself and generally keep you off balance by getting you to strive to achieve success in the eyes of society, religious figures, authority figures, parents. bosses, ect… Listen to your heart and pursue what makes you happy. Then you will be successful, and lighten up on yourself. You are no good to yourself when you are beating yourself up. Take the steps to boost yourself up…Like an athlete in training, prepare yourself for doing what you are passionate about. I am a parent and more than anything I want my kids to be happy. SO relax, you are young and you have time, and we all unfold at our own rate…The only real pressure you feel here, you are putting on yourself. If your parents have unrealistic demands, chalk them up to that, and realize what matters is how you feel about yourself. Stop the self sabotage. You are a worthy individual, and when you find what it is you love, please share it with the world, because you are an integral piece of the whole and we need your unique heart in our world…Peace sweet brother

What he said

Do you love yourself? The only relationship for you to be in is one to yourself…when you have it down, you will attract someone who compliments that nicely…You are very young and have lots of time for that…just have fun right now, get into your own groove and pretty soon you will look over and there next to you will be someone who admires you the same way you do yourself….

Try to think about what message you are giving your daughter about what is acceptable tratment from a man, and act accorsingly. Would you want her to be in your shoes?
Kick em to the curb honey you are selling yourself way shortm and if he continues to think he can treat you and his daughter this way, he will…