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Best way to get over an ex? A new girlfriend.

[quote angebailli]Its not about being confrontational, or fighting for something, its about being honest. If you like the girl whats wrong with giving her a call? I know I would prefer a guy to call me and talk to me rather than seeing who will pick up the phone first. Honestly, you guys can get it so wrong at times. Maybe she is sick or fed up with you, but at least if you call her you know either way. I know I would let a guy know if I wasn’t really interested if he called me and i wasn’t that interested. Whats the point of worrying or stressing about it??[/quote]That makes sense, but I have issues with worrying about this kind of stuff. I think over-burdening my last girlfriend with my anxieties about our relationship caused its downfall. Maybe I’ll just txt her ‘goodnight’ or something like that… I don’t know.

[quote classicrock1818]yeah, but if you do call, dont do what angebailli said. some people are just bad about communicating with other people, so being confrontational is not a good idea. unless it becomes an ongoing problem mention it, but if youve only been dating for a few weeks its not worth fighting over at all.[/quote]I totally agree.[quote Anonymous]Are u from new york. Is she asian by any chance. Some similar happened to me..[/quote]Nope! Opposite side of the country, actually.

[quote classicrock1818]yeah i know exactly what you mean. you want the relationship to be give and take, not give give give right? id say unless you have something you specifically want to tell her, then dont call, let her call you. if you have nothing specific to say or tell her, dont do it. plus a little space is always good.[/quote]Yes, exactly. I really hate this feeling; not hearing from someone and then stressing about it. I just wanted to call her to say hi and chit-chat. Your advice sounds good; I wont call. Thanks.[quote classicrock1818]also, really creepy avatar. american psycho?[/quote]And yes, I love that movie. At the time that I picked my avatar, I was at the end of a ~3 year ‘dry spell’ where I became very bitter about relationship and women. I think that made American Psycho all the more appealing.

[quote Anonymous]then… you’re probably right and you’ll convince her very soon[/quote]:(

[quote janer10]”Seek and ye shall find”, “Knock and the door will be opened”, seems like I remember reading that somewhere.[/quote]That’s a bible verse. It’s quoted in The Strangest Secret (good listen, look it up).

“Ask, and it shall be given you; seek, and ye shall find; knock, and it shall be opened unto you.”

I had that dream when I felt bad about not brushing my teeth enough. In my dream, all my teeth fell out and were loose in my mouth. Having a mouthful of teeth was really gross.

Get a hug from someone.

Maybe just squeeze them out.

You shouldn’t break up with someone because YOU thinks it’s right for THEM. I’ve done that before, and it’s screwy. Obviously you are still carrying this around with you, so you really should resolve it and do your best to get in contact with the person.

Saying that he was murdered, while interesting, is kind of unnessesary information.

How about:

“When I was a child, I intended to be just like my great grandfather; rich and powerful.”

Uhhh… why don’t you just get another beta? They are cheap, right? That’s pretty nasty.

I’ve always been a skinny guy, but I’m 24 now and am just starting to gain some weight in my stomach area. I know why: it’s because of my diet and lifestyle. My work always has free high-sugar snacks in the break room, and I’ve basically had no life for the past 4 months, so I haven’t been getting any excercise.

I think if I stop eating sugary foods, stop drinking soda, and exercise at least 3 times a week, then I can reverse this and probably even get into better shape than I was before.

Whatever you are doing now, do more, and keep at it!

He’s right. You shouldn’t have snooped. That was a violation of trust.

Okay, you like psychological movies, and you like American Beauty and Fight Club, which I also like.

I recommend going to see Moon, which should still be in theaters. Don’t watch trailers or read any reviews. Just go see it. It was just $4 to see it at a local theater, and it’s one of the best movies I’ve seen in theaters since The Fountain. :)