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hah changed the picture..nice

well..for you to be asking for a different perspective makes it seem that you yourself may think you have a problem..

one of my friends was the same way and it took her awhile to realize she had a problem and ill admit i had that problem also but… it took me stopping or controlling it to actually realize i had a problem

get a life

hah..help…they’re crazy.

its the thought that counts and if i could i would give you a hug

yeah..im kind of shy lol i figured i would need to..everyone tells me i should go for it but… i kinda stand back…he doesnt know at all

it would be better if some how he did but thats not how things work so i gotta start moving huh?!

yeah..im an intimidating girl though..for the most part the type of guys i like do not come up and talk to me because i am intimidating and confident and i know that im attractive ( not the most attractive you know but confident)..
so i feel that scares them away
bc theres this guy and i know this is lame a 20 y/o girl saying this but im shy with guys that i like bc im used to being @ the club or something bc thats where i work and where i used to work so its hard..esp when the guy isnt the type to go out to clubs and such

but generally would an average guy just go up to a girl??
or does he have to see that they have some of the same interests maybe friends.. idk

i believe there is

say hey, how are you..

your young

dont put too much on relationships with guys @ such a young age
it will happen

yeah ive been that way…upset but nothing that made me that way..hurt but no pain?? confusing i cont explain it..

its easy for me to put a smile on my face and act like everything is okay even though it may not be.

im happy now though!! it took me a while to realize why i was unhappy and wait i could do to change it bc at first i was looking for things i was fighting for bc i thought it was nothing i could do or change…but it was.

i was looking for ppl to make me happy or relationships or guys..
now i have a closer relationship to god and that has made the difference for me

all you need to do is figure out what your hiding from and face it and realize what your fighting for and change it!!!

are you just on her to put out your feelings or asking for help??

bc thats not enough to help others help you and maybe thats the problem your trying to hide??

looks like you worry too much..

and maybe that could be why you may not perform as well and maybe
when you ask her those ?s it bothers her

first off dont compare every other girl you see to her..
if you do you well never want to talk to another girl unless she ‘reminds’ you of her..
the best thing to do is to get over it..and im not sure how you would do that, find something constructive not destructive as it seems your doing

abortion, religion in government, legalized prostitution, organic foods (is it really organic?) i mean theres TONS
search argumentative topics or essays on the internet you’ll find it that way

if you run away think about what kind of problems it will cause for your kids..
not trying to cause more stress on your part because i know you must be under alot. but dont run away theres always a safer and easier way out and things will be okay even though it may not look like it right now