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I guess because when i do meet women and there like lets get together,i never call them.I guess i got hurt so badly the last time,its almost like a relationship.I just don’t want to be emtionaly attached?no,I am married for 8 years happy.He is my best friend.I guess i was asking if you realy need ‘’women'’ as friends?

Thank you thank you I wish I could give some advise back on anything in return,but im so filled up with problems i would feel bad if i give out the wrong advice!Ifound this web site about a month ago random.I have tried to talk to the ‘’professionals'’about my anxiety and low selfesteem but that is the worst sitting their infornt of a stranger saying how much of a ‘’looser'’ you think you are,when you pay them$80 an hour to hear lets work on that or did you have a good childhood?What? So thanks ps i can’t spell please excuse

Thank you.My husband is sort of into himself[i love him] so it is hard to tell him how i feel and when i do i know he gets burn out about it because he is the oppisite of me.So,thaks

I have the same problem I am my husbands other half.I met him when i was 18 know I am 34 he is my best friend so it is hard to think outside the box.His friends are my friends or aQant.’sWe just had a fight about this why cant you get your own friends?how can you? When you were in high school and you had that one best friend didn’t you both have the same friends?why can’t it be like that when you are married?Are you just suppose to marry someone for the attraction and not the friendship?I am scattered myself.I give up own making knew friends and than i feel lonely when i give my husband ‘’space,guy time'’which he is cool about but than he is like where are your friends?He makes me feel down about myself than like he is putting me down my bad i know this is not possitive advice but just wanted you to know you are not alone.Hate when people are fake and say just love your spose every thing will be ok whatever if this makes you feel any better that some people feel your pain i am here i hope i boost your day just a little you can just always have a cold one and just forget about everything good luck ps excuse the spelling i scuk

i have cut my selt too if ifeel like i have let people down or if i am under alot of stress that is why i do it and i am 34 years old i know it is wrong just be a possitive friend to her that is all she needs when she wants to talk about it she will asking her might make her feel even worse about ask it her about any other problems to avoid that problem she needs a good friend just to let all other problems to go away