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Ouch! I am sorry to hear about the broken foot… sometimes you just have to laugh.

Also it seems at times that for each step we move forward often there are two steps backwards… though I am not sure how that would work with you being on crutches!=)

No more karate until you heal up! Don’t let the broken foot get you down… sometimes wierd things just happen.

Well thank you for that poem! It made me feel better when all I was feeling at the time was despair.

Also RaverBarbie you seem to be doing what you need to be doing to work through problems and become a better person.

I also had an alcoholic father who was mentally abusive so please don’t listen to him when he gets that way. If you ever need to talk to someone about that situation or anything else please feel free to contact me.

You need to get out of his house… but you already know this.

And if you and the bf ever do make it back here to the States I would love to show you both around San Diego… it is very nice here!=)

Well you should be alright if you have not also been around others smoking. Also make sure you don’t eat a poppy seed muffin for breakfast… I actually failed a urine test at work once because of this and I don’t use drugs at all.

Have you told her how you feel? Perhaps a nice long letter letting her know how you feel would be in order.

Well I understand this completely. I lived with someone for two years… I loved her completely. We were talking about getting married. However she was very manipulative and would sometimes lie to me. Over the period of our relationship these things started to change the way I felt about her. We tried counceling… I had an epitome when the councelor asked me “Do you love her?” A light bulb went off in my head and I replied, “I love her but am no longer in love with her.” The councelor and I both realized at that time that X and I should no longer be together as a couple.

For whatever reason he no longer is in love with you. You should move on.

May you find peace and happiness.