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• I am wondering why a guy would call a girl, and have nothing to say. posted (11 months, 3 weeks) ago
  Is it boredom? An ego problem? When the guy calls after drinking a little he has a lot to say, altho…

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• How to “let go”.
  

  I often have trouble letting go myself. I always refer to this poem:
  
  Letting Go
  Author unknown
  
  To “let go” does not mean to stop caring,
  it means I can’t do it for someone else.
  
  To “let go” is not to cut myself off,
  it’s the realization I can’t control another.
  
  To “let go” is not to enable,
  but to allow learning from natural consequences.
  
  To “let go” is to admit powerlessness,
  which means the outcome is not in my hands.
  
  To “let go” is not to try to change or blame another,
  it’s to make the most of myself.
  
  To “let go” is not to care for,
  but to care about.
  
  To “let go” is not to fix,
  but to be supportive.
  
  To “let go” is not to judge,
  but to allow another to be a human being.
  
  To “let go” is not to be in the middle arranging the outcomes,
  but to allow others to affect their own destinies.
  
  To “let go” is not to be protective,
  it’s to permit another to face reality.
  
  To “let go” is not to deny,
  but to accept.
  
  To “let go” it not to nag, scold or argue,
  but instead to search out my own shortcomings, and correct them.
  
  To “let go” is not to adjust everything to my desires
  but to take each day as it comes,
  and cherish myself in it.
  
  To “let go” is not to criticize and regulate anybody
  but to try to become what I dream I can be.
  
  To “let go” is not to regret the past,
  but to grow and live for the future.
  
  To “let go” is to fear less,
  and love more.
  - written 5 months, 1 week ago

• I am wondering why a guy would call a girl, and have nothing to say.
  

  Thank you for your advice. It gives me a whole new outlook1
  - written 11 months, 3 weeks ago

• I am wondering why a guy would call a girl, and have nothing to say.
  

  Well, it’s been like this for over a year….haha LOL Like I said when he drinks a little he has a lot to say, although without a drop of alcohol totally boring conversation.
  - written 11 months, 3 weeks ago

• I am wondering why a guy would call a girl, and have nothing to say.
  

  How long does this last? I feel retarded after I get off the phone with him.
  - written 11 months, 3 weeks ago

• I am wondering why a guy would call a girl, and have nothing to say.
  

  It’s an awkward conversation, and then he says he will call me later…Is that normal?
  - written 11 months, 3 weeks ago

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