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• anyone know about US criminal law/immigration…warrants n felonies ? posted (1 year, 4 months) ago
  ?? Well I eloped from the States to Norway and I want to go back to visit my folks… I left wi…

• helpme18 yo-15 wks pregnant-and in HELL-in need of help, inspiration & advice posted (1 year, 7 months) ago
  so i’m 18 recently eloped to Norway from NY with my man now husband..we been togther 3 years…

• Ppl who know of vitamins minerals and herbs—i would like to know if they have the same affects internally if they were to be applied on the skin posted (1 year, 7 months) ago
  who know of vitamins minerals and herbs—i would like to know if they have the same affects in…

• it felt so good to say no…..my fiancee is always up my *** about everything…..i feel as if he’s the ***** in the relationship….so posted (1 year, 8 months) ago
  felt so good to say no…..my fiancee is always up my *** about everything…..i feel as if…

• 18 yo female from new york needs advice. posted (1 year, 8 months) ago
  . . .met my fiancee and we eloped to his home in Norway…i love him lord knows i did everything…

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• (1 vote) alcoholic father anyone grow up with 1?
  

  how old are you?? my father hit me with a bat this one time but not just to hit me..i was high as a mothafucka lol…but i had this horrible bruise and a close teacher saw it… she knew my backround so told a higher figure…i ended going to a counselours and all that b.s….and they offered something to help get out of my house…i graduated a year early to get out of my house faster..maybe you can do that…i doubled up my junior and senior year…those days i was a pot head and loved to **** and was in juvi by the end of the year… so school was obviously not my top priority but i still graduated which i am still proud of..maybe you can do the same…and then go away for college..no money …loans, scholarships, grants, just get the **** out of the house asap…a drunk is not worth your life…just if you do follow my advice ..go to college and graduate cause i wasn’t ready for it..i thought i would still be smokin and ******* boys in my dorm room…and acing thorugh college like i did HS …ummmm WRONG…just go to school for the -education- FIRST +plus+ the _freedom_ okay?
  
  - written 1 year, 8 months ago – voted for by jtothak

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• I don’t like my boyfriend anymore, he has a high temper.
  

  how did you end it with him…i’m soo happy you got away stay strong cuz you will cross paths again in the future and those good feeling WILL come back and you might for for him all over again…i’m so happy for you…i feel like i saved you life :) lol much love and good luck and remember there are millions of boys out there..don’t be so boy crazy cuz in the end it will always be just you…there’s this funny saying for guys but i changed it for girls:::: you will spend lots of money chasing boys, but get lots of boys chasing money….
  - written 1 year, 7 months ago

• People, help me, I remained without parents, and for me a money is enough hardly on subsistence, who can help, send who how many can on the purse .
  

  look no one will send you money, get a job serving ppl…like try vectormarketing.com they pay well if you got the time and they are are across the us…i used to do faux lashes 30$ a pop about 8 appts a day only worked weekends so it worked out well for me…i know the $8hr jobs are not even worth the application…try your local hospital they usually pay well wih great benefits…any gov’t job is good…just get into the service business…
  - written 1 year, 7 months ago

• my life is like a story.
  

  look you need professional help go to therapy a guidance counselor a teacher…you must speak out and yell out your pain…cry out that pain..let it go…one day you WILL cut yourself too deep and YOU KNOW THIS!! because you cut doesn’t decrease that hurt and sadness it only increases and multiplies…please look at yourself in the mirror where do you want to be in 5-10 years…make a plan and strive for it…keep that friend close sweety ppl will come and go and if you depend on ppl they will dissapoint you…baby you got to stop cutting..throw away the razors or other supplies…throw them away throw the extras away put em in bag look in the mirror and look at yourself you are doing it to you….why hurt yourself when others have over and over…i know how it feels i been there…don’t let them win…i didn’t cut but i went out looking for the love my parents never gave me..i had many sex partners and today i thank god i never caught AIDS or anything serious..i would also do alot of drugs by my senior year i was allways high…Baby you got to stop or get someone to stop you for it will not stop until your end…i’m crying now i don’t want to read about u dead…please when you wanna cry cry…thas the pain..let it roll down ur face…you may think it’s weak but when is all out sweety is so good…write in a diary to yourself, to a loved one to anyone… i write to my unborn child….or draw..i drew so much in my teenage years pictures of death me trapped it was obvious how i felt in the pictures but they ignored the message just noticed the talent…i recently started drawing again it’s therapeutic for me…look you can write to me any time…read my posts i’m not to far off from you…baby girl please write to me i don’t want this for you…i have a niece your age and would kill anyone who hurt her like you hurt…you deep inside how to stop…but you alone never will..tell someone someone u trust your friend..she cares she will watch over you…i was just like you with that 1 bff for life…the only one who cared the one who kept calling when i ran away…that girl will always be there…i traveled half way across the world for i thought i was in love…lol he loves me like ppl love rats…and she is still there for me but now i am kinda screwed and feel horrible to ran on her parade…i’m gonna call her now i haven’t spoke to her in weeks…please talk to me if anything read my posts we have alot to relate….i love you baby girl god is always there he allways will be there for you no matter what
  - written 1 year, 7 months ago

• What are ways you can excersise if your completely out of shape?
  

  Swimming is the best…put on goggles and do laps in the deep end and just reflect on life..when i was on the swim team when i was younger i would think each lap of how old i was and think how was i how i acted and for every higher number where i wanted to be ….just looking down into the water…its great and you don’t get all sweaty but it is a workout you will tell when u get out of breath..an i found for me it makes me loose the most weight…plus your weightless in water an extra plus…
  - written 1 year, 7 months ago

• I have an drug and alcohol addicted son in jail.
  

  tough love…practice it
  - written 1 year, 7 months ago

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