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Hum…Seems like green and black/white have the most votes so far

[quote Skye][quote gimli]Think about this rationally for a second!

What you are saying is that the SINGLE most important factor in a healthy relationship is that the girl be 8 years older than the guy?[/quote]

It that’s true, should I be dating 14-year-olds?

Pfft. Nope, don’t believe it. Wives tale. (no pun intended) Besides, if a woman was to date someone younger than her, it might as well be child abuse. LOL.[/quote]

Is there a reason why it’s child abuse if a woman does it and not if a guy does it? Honestly, I’ve seen a ton of marriages with 10-18 years age difference with the guy being older. Why is that okay?

There are second chances, but you should decide if you actually DON’T want to be with your husband and if you’re just rebounding onto a new guy. If you do want to get divorced, ask the court for help. They usually have programs to help people who really can’t afford it. Just don’t make decisions too soon or try to force yourself to love someone because you want to feel appreciated again.

It kind of sounds like you have some type of mental issue. Maybe try to see a psychologist (a lot of colleges have those for free) and since you probably won’t motivate yourself enough to go, get a family member or something to call you and annoy you into going.
Other than that, maybe just think about accepting yourself the way you are. I feel the same way often, but just not stressing out over it helps to make me a lot more motivated to do things I like to do.

Oven fries are really yummy if you put enough oil into it and let them be crispy and spice them right. If not, deep fried is probably best.