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[quote courtney77fear]I am 30 yrs old. I broke up with a guy in October 2006. I still have feelings for him. It is weird our problems are not resolved. He calls me or I call him. I played hard to get last year and he chased me big time. He calls me and says he misses me or he wants to see me and I do the same. I am confused. When I am with him I feel like it is like old times. He holds me tight, we have fantastic chemistry and we are the fun couple. I have a blur of why we broke up–He is 35 and not sure about commitment. I really love him but I cannot keep on getting hurt. Please help.[/quote]

Why did you guys break up? You have to know the source of the problem in order to solve it. If he is scared of commitment, then he is obviously not ready for marriage. Be smart and look for signs. Does he seem serious about you, or does it seem like he is there only for fun?

The 2 posts above this one are scams!

Yes, I will agree with the above responses. Smells very fishy.

These people will leave a fax number, but no phone number?

And, what company in their right mind will give out a loan without collateral or credit?

And, what the heck is an international debt loan? That’s bogus.

And, why would a legit company ask for information over a public platform such as this?

This sounds like a scam, a hoax, a con, a fraud, and whatever else you want to call it.

Dying is permanent. Your life has much more meaning! You’re not replaceable! Don’t throw away your only life over some guy is not a good decision. Seems like you’re young, and your ex-bf may be your first love, but trust me there will be other loves after him.

It may be hard for you to understand now because you’re still young, but later on you’ll realize that there’s more to life than just a guy. Don’t you want to raise a family later on? Don’t you want to travel? You can accomplish many great things with your life, so don’t throw it all away.

One more thing: I know you said you don’t believe in the bible, and you probably have other stuff on your mind. But, I suggest you give it a try. When I’m down in the dumps, I read the bible and pray. It helps me get through tough times. Yes, believing in God is a matter of faith, but you have realize that we didn’t descend into this life through some dust particle. God created us; we exist because of a supernatural. It is why we have a soul, and a spirit, and the ability to love and feel.

Well, I’m done preaching to you, but I hope you take my advice. You are important. You are unique to this world.

God Bless,
Steve

They’re not your friends to begin with if they are talking trash about you. Remember to always be yourself and don’t try so hard to fit in.

Your true friends should like you for who you are.

Mortgage loan officers make a lot of money, and most places will hire you even if you have no experience or a license. I’ve personally worked with loan officers that made as much as $30,000 a month.

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I’ve read everyone’s opinions, but I think it depends on where you come from and how you grew up. People from nice and upscale neighborhoods might see the world in a more positive light. While, people in the bad and run-down neighborhoods might have a totally different perspective. It is based on what you have experienced in your life and what is happening around you in present time.

For example: Why should I have the right to disagree with someone in Iraq, Afghanistan, or Africa for having a negative outlook on their lives? I can’t possibly fathom what they feel or what they’ve been through. My point being, I think we should all try to understand everyone’s opinions and situations, and work harder to help our world community as a whole.

Im not sure if you qualify for a deferment program, but you might want to look into that.

Well, first of all, do you have enough money to pay it off that quickly? Secondly, if your mortgage doesn’t have a prepayment penalty, you should be able to pay it off without any additional fees.

Tina, how is your credit? Do you have a job?

Donzell,

It sounds like you’re a busy person. Slow down and re-assess everything in your life. Cut-down spending in areas where possible. Quit bad habits if present. Pay-off high interest debts first. Prioritize.

Getting a job these days is not easy. I’ve been struggling with it myself. But, God has a plan for you. It just doesn’t come at your own time. Be patient and do your part to the best of your abilities. When you start getting negative thoughts, fight them and try to do positive things.

lebronCAV2,

Living a life of lying will get you no where but trouble and pain. People who lie live lives where they are constantly covering up lies. People who live like this can’t be happy because these people always have worries on their minds. They can’t focus on the priorities in life, and they end up covering up more lies.

The right way to leading a happy and satisfying life is to be up-front and honest in everything you do. Not only will you have a peace of mind, but you’ll also have confidence to achieve more in life; such as asking a girl out or telling your dad what happened.

Hi Nebojsa,

There an organization called Kiva.org which helps people in developing countries get loans. I think it is exactly what you’re looking for.

Best Regards,
Steve

Why would race matter? Love knows no boundaries.

I don’t he broke up with you over you flirting with someone. It might just an excuse for him to break up with you. Im not trying to be mean, but gotta face the facts. You can’t force or make someone love you. It’s not how love works.

In any case, I wish you the best,
Steve