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• HELP ME NAME MY BUSINESS! posted (3 weeks, 3 days) ago
  Hi, I have a post already up and I have Dan helping me.. but I thought I would make another post …

• I HAVE AN IDEA… NEED SOME ADVICE! posted (3 weeks, 3 days) ago
  ! Ok. SO here it goes. I am out of a job and I think I might have an idea on how to handle this. …

• Does anyone believe in the supernatural? posted (1 month) ago
  ? I once had an experience that lasted for a year… that to this day I still get creeped out b…

• BOOBS! posted (1 month) ago
  (GIRLS?? HELP??) They hurt. I was a week late but… I just had my period on the 13th of this…

• I get on hear a lot and find that a lot of people are so very truly unhappy. posted (1 month, 1 week) ago
  I see avatar’s that look depressing, people’s choice of words just reek with sadness an…

• Why do they remove certain quotes? posted (1 month, 1 week) ago
  I notice quotes removed in a lot of chats… can anyone answer this??…

• STEROIDS! posted (1 month, 3 weeks) ago
  !! DO YOU KNOW ABOUT THEM??? Just want to know the side effects. I am trying to help a friend! I nee…

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Kima's Top (5) Replies by other users' votes

• (1 vote) I have got problem with teacher but my story is different.
  

  Dear (Insert name)
  I just wanted to take the time to write you a thank you letter…
  
  You have made such an impact on my life. You have touched my life in such away that it has made me feel a great admiration for you.
  I will never forget you and never want to!
  
  Because I feel so comfortable talking to you and respect you so much, I was wondering if you could be a mentor in my life.
  I would love to be able to talk with you when I need some advice or guidance.
  
  
  (Honestly, just write from your heart) but this is just an idea…)
  
  - written 1 day, 11 hours ago – voted for by kukina18

• (1 vote) I just found out that my husband has been cheating on me and I feel so helpless.
  

  OMG! I can’t believe it…
  why is it that everyone thinks that when a MAN cheats on a woman it is because
  *She gained weight
  *She is unattractive
  *She wasn’t putting out…
  *She didn’t give enough attention…
  
  SERIOUSLY!
  The reason people cheat is because of something with THEM!
  It isn’t Poetictruth2’s fault her husband strayed.
  It is her HUSBANDS fault he strayed.
  
  He has to get right with himself before he can make it right with his wife!
  
  I know too many people who have or are cheating on their spouses. It has nothing to do with the other it is because the cheater has their own issues.
  
  Some people just don’t honor the sanctity of marraige anymore. When there is problem.. you work it out. You just don’t give up and move on with out letting the person know there is a problem.
  Only when they get caught do they finally reveal..”Oh, well, it is because of this or that!”
  NO! A$$hole.. it is because of YOU! It is because you didn’t have the audacity to come to me if you where unhappy.. it is your fault because you where weak and selfish and didn’t realize that now you have ruined not only our marraige but our childrens lives!!
  
  Poetictruth2… don’t for ONE SECOND think you did anything to deserve this.
  Don’t start looking at yourself and thinking… What did I do wrong?
  You stand up tall and know in your heart that you didn’t ask for this.
  He brought this horrible act into your marraige. HE poisened your marraige.
  
  I have been married. It didn’t end because of infidelity.
  My mother is on her 3rd marraige. My father cheated on her.
  My mother was a good wife and is a wonderful mother.
  The second.. he was abusive to her.
  The third.. well, let me just say.. 3rd times a charm.
  
  Poetictruth2.. I will be praying for you that GOD blesses you with Strenght, Courage and Wisdom to get through this.
  
  I am sure you will discuss this with your husband and then take time to think about what it is that YOU want from him.
  I hope for the best for your marraige and your whole family.
  
  PLEASE keep me posted and know that I will be praying for you and thinking about you.
  
  Many hugs!!
  
  Kima
  
  - written 4 weeks ago – voted for by ambrutellow

• (1 vote) **** the ******* ******* of god!
  

  Shooo.. thanks death…
  Wait!!!! death found me!!!
  
  Ahhhhhhhh!
  
  
  
  
  
  
  
  - written 1 month, 1 week ago – voted for by Hohenheim of Light

• (1 vote) Well, I need advise.
  

  God doesn’t make mistakes. If you don’t feel you can provide the right home life for your new baby. Consider adoption!
  
  I would love a baby… :o)
  
  But he doesn’t sound like the type of man to stay with.
  
  Move on.. I know it is easier said, then done… but in the end, you have to make the right choice for your children.. born and unborn…
  
  I will pray for you!
  
  God is LOVE:
  Kima
  
  - written 2 months, 1 week ago – voted for by smoknbowl

• (1 vote) Ok Im gonna say I really think my parents ruined my life.
  

  Cherry Bop:
  
  Listen: I am now 31. I lived a very very unhappy childhood and ended up in an abusive relationship and birthed a child who is now 10.
  I can pretty much say I grew up being abused. I had severe depression,anxiety and pretty much felt cut off from the world.
  I CAN’T CHANGE ANY OF THAT NOW!
  
  What I did was WAKE UP! I realized that if I was going to be any sort of mother to my son, that I was going to have to take care of me FIRST!
  You can’t change the past but you can **** well control YOUR FUTURE!
  
  Stop being the VICTIM and be the VICTOR! It’s time for you to take control of your future and run with it.
  I had debt and filed bankruptcy… you can’t do that with studen loans but you can get scholarships/grants.
  Make a list of what you want in your/your daughters future and start seeking help for it.
  You don’t have to stay with this person. You can find housing for your situation.
  
  The minute you realize you don’t have settle and you can move forward from your past.. is the minute you can change your life!
  
  You have the power.. now stop fussing about your past and start working on your future!
  
  BE STRONG!
  
  YOU CAN’T SEE WHAT IS AHEAD IF YOU ARE ALWAYS LOOKING DOWN!
  
  - written 4 months ago – voted for by hey...iknowyou

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• If you’ve ever felt emotional pain, please read this.
  

  You are talented and intouch with emotion.
  - written 1 day, 4 hours ago

• I’m thinking seriously about getting a divorce.
  

  Best advice I heard about divorce…
  
  Divorce is an option if:
  You have tried EVERY angle and option to make it work. IF you can walk away from the marriage without feeling anger or any other emotion.There should be closure there.
  (This is not reference to spousle abuse, any other dangerous situation or adultery)
  - written 1 day, 4 hours ago

• I have got problem with teacher but my story is different.
  

  I can understand your reasoning for resenting your mother.
  And of course that is something you CAN discuss with your teacher… another time.
  First you need to focus on opening up to your teacher in a gentle way… where as NOT to overwhelm her. Imagine if the roles where reversed… best way to handle any situation.
  
  Once you have let her in on your feelings… finding out if she will accept being your mentor.. then little by little you can open up to her.
  
  Relationships need time to grow and bonds will be made tighter that way.
  You will build a trust with her and the same will happen for her.
  
  As for the Mom issue.. I know you can post your story in another “Post” but remember (I am a mother) that MOMS have valid reasons for the decisions they make. Well, MOST mothers anyway… but again, I don’t know your story.
  Maybe you can vent in another post and we can take a stab at that one too.
  
  HUGS: Kima
  - written 1 day, 4 hours ago

• I have got problem with teacher but my story is different.
  

  Why thank you theresape! :O)
  - written 1 day, 11 hours ago

• I just started a new job and my trainer makes me uncomfortable.
  

  Thank you Sasha!! Have fun!! :O)
  - written 1 day, 11 hours ago

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