well if you just plain forget wont you make the same mistakes? you can never really forget about the past as it interacts with the present so much. i want to forget my past but instead i must just learn to move on and think of other thinks, focus on the present - written 9 hours, 50 minutes ago
if its a huge spider, its understandable, i freeze and cant really do anything if i see a huge one, i have to get away but i dont want it to move cuz then i wont know where it is and i dont want to kill it cuz its mean, its just a spider, i doesnt know anything. normally i jus get my dad to chuck it out but if i cant then i jus have to shut it in the room and not go back in there till i know it will’ve gone. when i go into somewhere like a public loo, i have to look around to make sure theres none in there, but sometimes i can control myself not to look around cuz then i wont be able to use the loo lol, i scan my bedroom every time i go in there to sleep, and recently on holiday i was a nervous wreck and slept with the light on for three nights. its bloody annoying havng a phobia of something so common but i think maybe phobias jus arise every now and then then they fade away. im not really sure why. i realise i havent been much help in helping you get over your phobia but erm, maybe itll help to know you’re not alone? - written 1 week ago
sometimes phobias do resurface, mine has recently, concidentally also of spiders, but will go away again, just gradually try and get used to them, instead of killing/getting rid of every spider you see, perhaps just ignore smaller ones, thats what i tried to do and it helped me. obviously different for everyone but i dunno, jus how bad is your phobia? - written 1 week, 1 day ago
dont shave inside, its not good for you really.
yeah most people have hair on their upper lip, for some its more noticeabel, dont shave because you WILL grow a beard and i wdnt think you;d want that. If its dark hair, jus try bleaching it, if its light then jus leave it theres not much you can do about it.
Amount of moles/brown spots of melanin do increase over your lifetime, i frequently notice new and annoying ones but happens to everyone and thers no need to worry about it i shouldnt think - written 1 week, 1 day ago
