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Hun, the thing you have to consider is.. how much does he harm you and to what extend are you feeling good about the situation… It is soo hard to live through a break up especially if both dont wanna let go… but think about it - if possible dont even talk to him.. it sounds soooo hard but it will work, the less you have to do with him the faster it goes over… you need something more mature than that.. your life should go on while his might not but thats not your concern anymore though its hard to believe.. move on… in the toughest cases, and Im talking as an A student in Biology here, hormones go back to normal after a year latest, doesnt matter if your dog or your grandma died or you lost your favourite shirt… or boyfriend…
hope this helped a little :)

yea the problem is, that he said that he really doesnt want a relationship he also told me (only drunk people and little kids say the truth) that I am his best female friend which I think is really nice of him to say but doesnt get me further… makes sense?