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My mistake. All things forgiven. We all have bad days now and again. I was having one as well.

Hey ayc, how are you? I have not seen your avatar in a while, so I thought I would harass you in your shout box.

Ok well thats very fair. Thanks for letting me know.

You, my friend, may not want to talk about religion for a while. Ignorance is one thing. Stupidity is another. Combining them and shoving them in people’s faces when your mind is perfectly capable of intelligent thought is simply… not a good idea. Maybe use your brain more than the Bible for a while, mmkay?

Explain to me what the hell that post was about!

I so had the munchies. I feel very refreshed, thank you!
There are two ways to add friends. The first is on there profile page or in a post click the little man next to their avatar name with a plus sign. The other is to look at your friends list and add those people who have put you are their favorites list. Right now you have 7 people who want to be your friend, so you should click on Account Admin above, than friends, and choose who from your fan list you want to add to friends. Favorites are people who you have clicked on to be your friend, but they have not added you yet. Fans are people who want to be your friend. You can invite friends to posts by clicking on their avatar at the bottom of a post and than clicking invite. Anyways, I hope this helps. I see that you have figured out how to add me, but it looks like you have a number of other admirers you should consider adding to your friends list. I hope the world of ayc is a great place today. :]

good luck to you too/ Its nice to find fellow scientific thinkers on here :)

Thanks :)

I am still not cool enough to have you add me as a friend. All you have to do is click the little guy by my name with the plus sign, you know you want to. ;) I see you are still here. This place is not easy to get away from, huh? So, I still want to know about the hornet’s nest.

Sorry that I said that on the post, but it just came out. Why stay away from you? What could possible happen to me for sending you shouts? If you don’t come back, have a great life! You are a true asset to this site, so I hope you change you mind about leaving! Take care!

try speaking to me ;)

What exactly did you do? Are you leaving for good?

I have added you to my favorites list. I am hoping you will accept so we can be friends. I think you are a very interesting and intelligent guy, so I am hoping to be invited to your posts in the future. :)

Maybe we can start are own weirdo club here on help. ;)

hey thanks for the compliments :) I almost don’t notice, I’m so wrapped up in my own concerns… have a great day! you’re welcome for however I might have been slightly helpful.

did you try the last link I posted? That’s something I do here sometimes when I have no idea how best to go about discussing something here, I search the site to see how other’s have discussed it before. Sometimes it works a little for me.

I’ve had the misfortune of seeing many stupid discussions about Scientology.

I don’t think I ever saw a single one go instantly into discussing Christianity, God, and the bible like on this site. And it happens with most posts related to “theism” I’ve seen here.

I don’t think your post goes against the site’s policy on religion. you’re just asking, “hey, fellow atheists, shouldn’t we get together and tell the truth of our worldview?” Don’t you think? It’s not offensive, it’s not forcing your beliefs on anyone.

But I think if you don’t do it clearly it’ll go into one of those religious debates that may be fun intellectual exercise but seem kind of meaningless.

Sorry, I’ll shut up now. Unless you’d like more clarification.

Maybe I can unconfuse you. scientology is some weird cult. they’ve been talked about often on the internet because of how they sue people who publish negative things about them.

..are you with me so far?

ayc wrote:
lol ty but i have realised that your not allowed to ask for this kinda help, on help, so i am going to close this thread, when i found out how ;) lol

I think it’s okay to ask here.

I did think it’d be funny to reply with “no your all dumb,” because of how the messages were going. That’s why I took your meaning wrong or vice-versa.

This is a very christian-centric site, however. I saw a discussion of scientology the yesterday that instantly went into discussing the bible and christianity. I’ve seen many discussions of scientology in public forums on the internet but I don’t think I’ve seen one before that instantly went into discussion of Christianity.

do you want the last response I wrote up for that post?

How could you offend me? I wish I could say I knew who the artist was, but sadly it was something random I found on the net. I chose it because I felt it said volumes about what is important! I am glad you like it! :)

Where you talking about my avatar on my post? :)

http://www.markryden.com/

“exercise” but we all knew what you meant :-)

Thanks. :D

Hey thank u so so so so so much about my friend!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Hey, Can I talk to you later? You can e-mail me at Akhale51 at yahoo.com

Yea, I know what you are talking about. Transference. Yes, I believe that is where we are in our therapeutic relationship. However, she might be suffering from some of that herself because she coaches my hockey team.

I can read it in my shoutbox but not rely to it unless I am in yours.

I dunno. I personally think my counselor got upset because she cares about me. At least that is what I would like to think. I have been seeing her for 3 years so she kind of has a sense of who I am beyond the diagnoses.

but can you read and reply to this only on my shout box? i think it would work like that. lol sorry for being a noob ;)

it sounds like you need another new councellor, a fresh opinion isn’t a bad thing, they may agree, in which case you can guess its yourself causing the difference of opinion, or if it is actually a professional differnece of opinion you have another way to look at it, a fresh outlook, either way its not actually a bad thing

Yea, you write in mine. lol

Exactly! For example; when I was diagnosed and medicated for the ADD I told my counselor and her reaction although quite amusing at the time was very defensive. In fact she said something along the lines of that she thought he just liked diagnosing peoplewith that and when I told her I was being edicated she said “you’re kidding right” I said no. At which point she lost it.

can we write here?

But I also have my mom hitting me up for meds as if I am the corner drugstore which makes me want to just dump all my meds down the toilet and say forget it.

lol.

I think I am irritated by a number of things. But mostly the fact that I am seeing four different doctors and none of them communicate with eachother so when something like the ADD med is making me suicidal I have to be the one who keeps eeryone in the loop.

i am sooo tired of trying to do everything right, be happy and good.
i see thats its natural for everyone else, or they are ignorant or they don’t care, why is it so hard for me?! i can’t live and be ignorant or not care, i wouldn’t want too.
what are my other options? besides a life of intelligence, caring and pain, or a life of ignorance, selfishness and bliss? thats all i can see, and apparently i’m quite smart ;( which is quite worrying =/