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• I NEED you to sign in and post “yes”, we want more! posted (1 month, 1 week) ago
  I’m interested in helping this site. Would I have your support? I’d manage…not m…

• Post your real needs. posted (2 months, 1 week) ago
  Things that you feel will help or change your life:)…

• Anything google or connected to google won’t load. posted (5 months, 4 weeks) ago
  Even searching google issues. Times out or relies not connected. Everything else works fine. Any ans…

• If you have trouble running, walking will do:) posted (8 months, 2 weeks) ago
  If you need me for something…you’ll have to shout or email me:) I won’t be on as m…

• What happened to the chat page? posted (9 months) ago
  It’s meebo now?…

• What do you really need to make your life better? posted (9 months, 3 weeks) ago
  What should the first step be?…

• Today I “need” you to be a Santa’s Helper:) posted (11 months) ago
  Please show me the good, funny Elf’s only. I challenge you to make us laugh…lol..ho ho h…

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Max's Top (5) Replies by other users' votes

• (2 votes) What do you really need to make your life better?
  

  Hey Sky…the worst job you could have is one you had to chase…it’s better when they chase you:)
  
  - written 9 months, 3 weeks ago – voted for by SoulRising

• (2 votes) Internet safety
  

  I tell my friends the Internet is like walking in New York (no offense to NY’s) window shopping or site seeing. Be prepared for the evil that lurks in the shadows and don’t go in there. If you do, tell someone immediately. If monsters looked like monsters we could round them up and put them away. The most dangerous people in the world look and act like everybody else….until you are alone. Don’t be alone.
  
  - written 1 year, 1 month ago – voted for by Luck of the Irish, ~~EdieAnne~~

• (1 vote) My life is a mess i am in a relationship i do not want to be in.
  

  It’s “right now” time.
  
  Reboot!
  
  Fix the no drinking now, conform to your current responsibilities and LEAVE the married chic alone until you have fixed your issues completely!
  
  It’s not about how happy you are now, it’s about fixing yourself and looking at it with a “clear” perspective. Selfish happy hurts and has a defined end..the bottom and pain for all connected.
  
  You are a fantastic man…I hear it in your words! You are a kind, loving dad and you have the strength to step up. You will have to be an open book and involving a married women will only complicate and hurt more people.
  
  Step one…no more alcohol! Lock yourself up if need be.
  Step two…follow all the wishes of your son’s mother.
  Step three…never communication with the married women again in anyway… until you have 2 years sober under your belt.
  
  No negotiating.
  
  Stats are with me.
  Be strong my man:)
  
  - written 9 hours, 1 minute ago – voted for by reallifeguy

• (1 vote) I’m starting a petition to bring Dani Hates You back as a Mod… she was the only one that ever spent any time here and she was one of us!
  

  lol…yes you have a way with words and trolls:) Too bad we can’t put that in a spray and market it as troll repellent:)
  
  - written 1 month, 1 week ago – voted for by Ditzy

• (1 vote) I find it difficult to trust people
  

  “I really feel for you Estrella because I know exactly what you’re going through - and it really is horrible :(
  
  Even with friends I consider close - I never fully trust them, and it’s a shame.”
  
  Have they ever given you a reason to feel that way?
  If not, your half way there to resolving your issue:)
  Knowing that there is a problem is a big step.
  Some people try to control people and have trust issues as their past has conditioned them that way.
  
  It’s a fear issue and they feel that if they give tests to their friends, it’ll make them feel better. You’re so right that the behavior is wrong.
  
  Work on the control issue.
  Increase your self esteem.
  Understand if the worst happened, you would get over it:)
  
  It’s healthier:)
  
  - written 2 months, 2 weeks ago – voted for by SqueegeeeBeckenheim

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• My life is a mess i am in a relationship i do not want to be in.
  

  Right on big guy:)
  - written 3 hours, 45 minutes ago

• Hello everyone!
  

  Plus, a hint that may help.
  You have so much on your plate, you’ll need to define what is your problem and what is not.
  The girl dating a married man…not your problem now…it’s hers.
  Don’t even say bye unless she calls you. Say sorry:) Then bye.
  - written 8 hours, 5 minutes ago

• Hello everyone!
  

  Well, according to the law and she has a contract, you have to summit to your partner.
  Apologize and ask your wife what she wants. It’s going to hurt, but after you are done fixing that relationship, be it divorce or what ever, then you can fix the rest. How you conduct yourself will leave an impression on your children and shape them into the people they need to be.
  
  Good luck dad.
  Get a pro and pay your dues!
  BTW, it’s not you…it was your behavior. We don’t get how to be a good dad classes in school or how to be a good husband classes either.
  
  Winging it doesn’t work…just burns time and causes painful mistakes.
  Chinese proverb; man who trips over same rock twice…pretty stupid:)
  - written 8 hours, 9 minutes ago

• Hello everyone!
  

  It’s hard chum.
  Here’s the order of responsibility.
  
  First your a dad, not a friend.
  They’ll call you an asss and you’re not. Just your behavior:)
  It’s not about where you belong now, it’s about your are responsibility.
  It’s about how to repair what you’ve done.
  
  You can’t do it alone and you would be a lot better off if you followed a direction given to you from a professional.
  
  You can’t remove the past, but you can start over. Now. Start from here.
  
  It’s step up to the plate time. Take your medicine and focus. Not about your happiness for a little while. It’ll come very soon.
  
  Are you divorced?
  - written 8 hours, 21 minutes ago

• My life is a mess i am in a relationship i do not want to be in.
  

  Don’t mean to be harsh…just real.
  - written 8 hours, 50 minutes ago

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