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• Friends with other guys. posted (2 days, 9 hours) ago
  I’ve been with my boyfriend for about 8 months, and he’s been my only guy friend. Howev…

• I seriously feel trapped and controlled. posted (1 month, 1 week) ago
  I’m 18, and my parents won’t let me see my boyfriend. At all. We had broken up once bef…

• God, I hate my sister sometimes. posted (1 month, 1 week) ago
  I hate when she calls me a “nutcase” whenever I have to see the doctor or psychiatrist…

• What are the restrictions for a visitor of the opposite sex, staying at a same-sex accommodation (at a University in England)? posted (1 month, 3 weeks) ago
  Are they not allowed to stay overnight period, or certain things they can’t do (such as usin…

• Feeling really low. posted (2 months, 2 weeks) ago
  I’ve been on my antidepressants for about 2 months now. My main problem is anxiety. The last …

• I REALLY need advice for a friend, please help. posted (2 months, 3 weeks) ago
  Basically my best friend had an apprenticeship (he lives in the UK) to do ICT in a high school. Heâ…

• Dealing with anxiety. posted (5 months) ago
  I’m tense a lot of the time, with a weight in my stomach. I find it quite hard to relax, or t…

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Opeth's Top (5) Replies by other users' votes

• (1 vote) I am caught in a preserved state of madness and uncertainty.
  

  Long-distance relationships are very very hard. Especially when you don’t know the next time you’ll be able to see each other. I’ve read some of your other posts about detachment, and I understand where you are coming from. At times I have felt detached, but I know it’s only because you’re dealing with so much emotion that you suddenly shut it off. You’re only 17, you don’t need this type of pressure on you. You need to have a long talk with her about everything that’s going on through your mind. It is unhealthy, to be dependent on each other whilst living so far away. Maybe you both need some time apart to think about things. If it’s true love, you will eventually find each other again. But you need to weigh up whether all the heartbreak you’re having now is worth it.
  
  - written 2 weeks ago – voted for by sans-sans

• (1 vote) So i met this guy who goes to the school i’m
  

  Deep down, I’m sure you’ll be craving to find someone who appreciates all your talents. YOU don’t settle for second best.
  
  I’d much rather have one love for the rest of my life, than go through several boyfriends who don’t get the chance to know the real me.
  
  I thought 17 was a bit old for my very first romantic experience, but the person I ended up falling for got to know everything about me, including personal things I never really show to anyone (like playing the piano).
  
  Though it took a while, I developed into the person he is now in love with.
  
  In the same way, as you grow and learn and develop your artistic and musical skills, some very lucky boy will come along and say to himself, “I can’t believe I lucky I am!” Hand in there. :)
  
  - written 1 month, 2 weeks ago – voted for by Hybrid Theory

• (1 vote) What would happen if you Sniffed a computer?
  

  *Sniffs*
  
  My head just exploded.
  
  - written 1 month, 3 weeks ago – voted for by hey...iknowyou

• (1 vote) Anything you would like to ask about science or how things work?
  

  Haha, I find it it amusing that this is under “love help.”
  
  And I have two ‘impossible’ questions. If the Universe infinitely expands, where does it expand into? Like, what is on the ‘other side’?
  
  If the Universe started from the Big Bang and the matter continues to expand, where did that matter come from in the first place?
  
  I understand that this is purely theoretical, but I’d love another view on the matter.
  
  - written 5 months, 4 weeks ago – voted for by Florie

• (1 vote) i’ve been with an amazing guy for a year and a half.
  

  I know how you feel hun. Especially the, “no matter what he does, or what anyone says, my mind WILL NOT CHANGE i love him and thats that.” My mind won’t let go either, which is why I’ll keep trying. Because that’s what love is. Why don’t you write down all your feelings in a letter to him because it might be easier? He obviously means so much to you. And if he cares he won’t ignore the fact you feel so bad about it.
  
  - written 6 months, 1 week ago – voted for by x.loliiPO

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• I feel really panicky today (which is unusual cause I’ve been getting better).
  

  Listen to some music. Write a poem. But if you keep typing about it/thinking about it, it gets worse.
  - written 21 hours, 6 minutes ago

• I feel really panicky today (which is unusual cause I’ve been getting better).
  

  Why are you afraid? Do something to take your mind off it.
  - written 21 hours, 10 minutes ago

• I feel really panicky today (which is unusual cause I’ve been getting better).
  

  Hello, I have anxiety too and there are days when I feel extremely anxious but you just have to tell yourself it WILL go away soon. :)
  - written 21 hours, 13 minutes ago

• i feel like i may have a mental illness.
  

  Go talk to a doctor about it?
  - written 2 days, 8 hours ago

• im gay help me please im not joking!
  

  Trrrrroooolllll……… *hisses and boos*
  - written 1 week, 5 days ago

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