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• So, with all the complaining I’ve done about his internet cheating and other affairs, I just found out today that we’re pregnant again. posted (1 year, 7 months) ago
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• I’m sitting here still wondering if he’s truly where he says he is…even though we talked last night, and he promised that he was done posted (1 year, 8 months) ago
  sitting here still wondering if he’s truly where he says he is…even though we talked la…

• Can a relationship survive with no trust? posted (1 year, 8 months) ago
  I have found emails from my boyfriend of 9 years to random women, propositioning them, in explicit…

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• So, with all the complaining I’ve done about his internet cheating and other affairs, I just found out today that we’re pregnant again.
  

  Money is so tight and he works on call 24-7 I only see him when he’s sleeping as is. It’s rough. These aren’t excuses. It’s the simple truth. He owns the company. I have to deal with phones ringing off the hook at all hours of the day and night. He’s really trying to change since we had the BIG talk. Yesterday we actually took the kids swimming together, and he stayed home for the night for the first time in I can’t tell you how long. He’s NEVER home. And he doesn’t make enough to pay daycare. We’re barely making the bills.
  - written 1 year, 7 months ago

• So, with all the complaining I’ve done about his internet cheating and other affairs, I just found out today that we’re pregnant again.
  

  I can’t afford the daycare. It’s a catch 20/20. If I go back to work, by the time I pay the daycare, and the gas, and the taxes out of my check, I wouldn’t be bringing home anything.
  - written 1 year, 7 months ago

• So, with all the complaining I’ve done about his internet cheating and other affairs, I just found out today that we’re pregnant again.
  

  I used to be so confident, and have such high self esteem. I used to be able to turn heads when I walked into the room, and I felt so wanted and beautiful and smart and I had it all. I used to dance to dance, and sing to sing, and just live to live, and I loved it. He’s made me so conscious of myself. My body after two kids, my hair, and makeup, and the lack of attention that I pay to myself, because I spend so much time with my kids. He makes me feel like every other woman out there has so much more to offer him than I do, and that they are so much more desirable than I am, because I’m not a size 3 anymore. I feel like I’m being compared to them all. But I’m real. 100% truthfull and honest real live woman. He claims up and down the wall that I am all that he wants and more, and that he doesn’t look at other women, and that he just pays attention to people and his surroundings. I used to say that my favorite thing in the world to do is laugh. I really wish I could remember what that feels like. Maybe I’m just being hormonal.
  - written 1 year, 7 months ago

• So, with all the complaining I’ve done about his internet cheating and other affairs, I just found out today that we’re pregnant again.
  

  I don’t even know how to respond to that. No I wasn’t trying. No we don’t use anything. I have no actually reason as to why we don’t. We just never have, in 9 years. It’s supossed to be a commited relationship, and we’re supposed to be together for the rest of our lives. I guess, it’s simply what’s meant to be will be. **** that sounds stupid. Either way, at 26yrs old, I wouldn’t trade my children for anything.
  - written 1 year, 7 months ago

• this topless post is dedicated to lil_bit_shi…
  

  I totally saw that coming! Ewww!
  - written 1 year, 7 months ago

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