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Look Matt, I know exactly how you feel. I’m stuck in a very similar situation.
From what I read on your post it sounds like she likes you a lot. Leading you on three times in the past she must have some slight “more than a friend” feelings towards you, but keeps holding back. Why? becuz she’s young and can’t see herself being fully committed to somebody yet and she knows YOU would commit..I mean you’ve proved it in the past for three years just by sticking with her. She probably is not ready to settle with just one guy so she’s playing the field. Once she messes around with a few jerky guys and things fall apart she’ll wake up. I think if you hang in there one day she’s gonna realize your the guy for her. I’ve always been told that really good friends or best friends make the best partners. I’ve also read lots of success stories on this, so everythings not hopeless Matt!
- written 2 months, 2 weeks ago – voted for by Matt.
No, I don’t think you should tell her.. that woudln’t be a good idea unless you know for sure she has strong feeling towards you. Just wait and keep being there for her and have good times together. She doesn’t seem to be that attached to him, so I think your chances are good.
Hey, read some of my posts we seem to be in a similar situation.
I actually think you shouldn’t find out.
If you knew for a fact they did it..Well, it’s gonna hurt you a lot more. You may not even be able to get physical without thinking of him. You’ll have those images glued inside your head forever and it will just mess you up.
I would much rather not know.. - written 9 hours, 33 minutes ago
I could somehow tell there was another guy in the picture before I even read that part lol. Sounds like she’s confused and doesn’t know what she wants.. her feelings may be split between you two. Have some fun with her.. get in there and make her feel it for you. Don’t back off. - written 9 hours, 45 minutes ago