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that little crutch in life is a hard thing to put down i did over 20 years ago but i did it for myself had a lot of things happen in my life the loose of my wife and a 3 week old daughter got me to the point of feeling sorry for myself becaused i missed them so much. my daughter was lost in an accident my wife of 6 years blamed herself i raised my oler son and daughter alone. i did have them to think of but in was not enough open your eyes you are a important person you have important things to look forward to in life, look around and thin look at yourself, if you drink to get along with the crawd don’t please them, if you drink because you are alone it will just make you lonely, if you feel sorry for yourself ask yourself why, love yourself you will find others love you too!

how well do you sleep there are sleeping disorders that come on rather sudden. check out other things for depression there are so many options out there ask your doctor

only a small percent grow out of this kind of thing if it just the party life she wants in my life i have had to hold people that were sixty years old that had records that went back 50 years

sounds like its time to trade up find someone without the problems it sounds like she is . if she has a family that doesn’t care what she does she will likely go on you may get hurt in more ways than you know drugs are bad and they catch up

i have been there and the only thing or one important is that baby if she is doing this and refuses help, don’t be afraid to leave her behind you won’t do her any good standing there like your on the outside looking in a window hoping the problem will go away there may be a time when she will do this to you and where will that baby be will she go out and leave him some place will she remember who she left him with or did she trade him off. at one time i had a woman that lived with me with a new born child that wasn’t mine but this is what she came to do just for starters

just be there your friend will know how you feel and when you lend an ear to listen just listen and being a friend no matter what you say or try it will never be enough in your heart and mind

i know about what you are going through i lost my first wife we had been married for six years get her help now if not sooner they can take thier own life and not even know they did. even worse thay can take someone elses life too! i lost my young daughter just a couple years before i lost her when something scares her beware. my little son is 3 years old his mother was on drugs at one time in a bad way just this last year she has been doing things like your mother and it is from the drugs in her past. julia is getting help but she is gone from us because she refused help it is a mess be so very careful for your mother’s sake and your own

at 16 there are so many burdons without family problems go to your probation officer and ask them to get you help they are there for you work with them let them work for you don’t be scared get back to school learn so you can learn to live

18 take your time relax one day out of the blue you’ll look up and bang that special person will be there and that person will want you for being you

marriege is a great thing my first marriege it was 3 years later that we got our rings she loved her rings and she knew she was loved every day even after i lost her 3 years later, those rings were important but never as important as the love no matter when you get them if the love is there she’ll be there

we all make bad choices that is what we do and we learn from them there is tomarrow and there is our loved ones, most judges are people to if you let them know they are there to help you as well as the store, they don’t want to see you in thier court room, enjoy living and be happy you have the tomarrows to look forward t/

i think the one on one has always been for me i have been married more than once never have the need to cheat on my spouses my last liked the female company too! and she liked group sex with me and them. the funny thing was i didn’t, i place strange value in these things at 52 i am active i have a 3 year old son, who’s mother ran off with a woman that i couldn’t bring myself to touch, sometimes it’s better to keep the one on one if have someone you care about and they want more where does it stop.

menmei i am a 52 year old fool but i would have to agree with mezz and jewels, some people just have to have friends around, and sometimes the friends we pick are our worst enimies, they talk us into things we don;t want, this jerk may really be a jerk in other ways too! he is not happy and don’t want anyone else to be, talk to your man. lazy people need jerks to make them feel important, find someone to talk to a theripest would be an idea, don’t get hurt jerks can cause a lot of injuries that can turn violant. start fights because you coming between him and his friend and his friend coming between you and your husband. remember 2 wrongs don’t make a right if you find friends to hang with he may think the same and the accusing starts

you have friends to talk to they may voice thier opinion on the other hand they may be happy for you too, that you are taking time to go on a little vacation but make arrangements with your job and make sure you have the money needed, you’ll still have to live when you return. think ahead

take your time you have a lot of it just look forward to knowing people enjoy them you will find that special someone in time don’t be a fool as i was in my youth and rush it, i once told my daughter a woman shouldn’t get married till they was at least 28 and a man shouldn’t till he was 35 when she ask me why i told her they might know what they want by then, she is 29 now with 2 sons of her own and raising them as a single mother thier father don’t know what he wants yet. don’t rush it