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• My relationship with God. posted (8 months) ago
  I feel myself getting closer to God and because of this I have decided that I can no longer be a pas…

• im fallin faster, faster for her. posted (1 year, 1 month) ago
  i thought i was over it but im not. my summer crush has come back with a fury. never in my life have…

• yea so i have this horrible habit of not finishing my schoolwork. posted (1 year, 7 months) ago
  well at least not when i should. look at me, even right now as i type i have more important issues(s…

• I am an American. posted (1 year, 7 months) ago
  I was wondering if that was enough reason to be hated in other countries around the world. I always …

• it would help if yall could give me some ideas. posted (1 year, 8 months) ago
  i am starting up a t shirt company and i would jsut like some ideas for a shirt. any ideas would be …

• Girls. posted (1 year, 8 months) ago
  Just thinking about them makes me go crazy. I don’t know why it is that they are so clueless a…

• Recently I asked myself the question of why we all keep our emotions locked up inside if we all know that we are human and have them. posted (1 year, 8 months) ago
  What keeps us from telling someone we love them or that we like their company? Is it a defense mecha…

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• What would the world be like if everyone accepted everyone and everything that happened in their life?
  

  the acceptance of everyone is impossible. too many ideas, different doctrines, beliefs that people live by to coexist in harmony.
  some people are too passionate- their different directions will inevitably cause tension
  some people are too ignorant- people fit into different strata, us vs them.
  
  the list goes on and on, i wish the world wasnt the way it is. i cant even think of this question hypothetically because when i start to think about it i just end up seeing too many flaws in our thinking to ever allow it to happen.
  
  i think dont think accepting everything that happens is a good thing at all. it allows us to not be comfortable and to strive for more. it gives a fighting spirit!
  - written 6 months, 2 weeks ago

• I feel like me n this one girl should be together.
  

  lesson to be learned: be more trusting
  
  bottom line you messed up, but its ok because you are not the first person to let jealousy get to you (happens the best)
  
  to answer your question: keep your distance, if she hits on you and plays with your emotions then it will just be detrimental to you in the end if she stays with her current boyfriend. meanwhile you are losing time finding another girl to get after.
  
  however i could be wrong and she might want to still get back with you.
  One very important question: how long was the period between you breaking up and her going out with this new guy?
  - written 6 months, 2 weeks ago

• I’m feeling troubled/suicidal
  

  If you start to think of every little bad detail about the world you will always find a giant list. then you become engulfed in disappointment and sadness over why humans, the smartest creatures to ever walk the earth, can’t settle differences peacefully, can’t be kind to each other(its pretty labored sometimes)etc, etc…
  
  and then you can think about the exact opposite, organizations that work to feed the poor, organiztions that work to provide doctors in third world countries, people who make it their life’s work to make this world a better place whether its researching better ways to combat cancer or a safety feature that saves lives. Even in suffering, the world gives me hope in the way that people set out to heal that suffering as best as they can by helping each other out. Heck, look how many people here dont even know you but care enough about you to talk you out of your thoughts.
  
  the bottom line is that life isnt perfect; this world isnt perfect, I’m sure you know that. There are more good people than bad, more people who set out to contribute than to take away.
  
  Right now you are young. I am young myself, at age 20. Its funny thinking about how certain issues when I was younger were blown out of proportion by no one other than me. Its all a matter of perception, usually with time comes a better understanding of why life is the way it is. Do you think that what is bothering you will be an issue 10 or 20 years from now? There are people who face terminal illnesses, life changing accidents and never give up. Your problems will go away soon if you ride them out. Wait until you are older, and experience life. Life can be so beautiful. think about the first time you will fall in love (its a feeling that I’ve never felt before). I was somewhat pessimistic up until this year. I never had any real “game” but I nabbed myself a real keeper :) In an instant my life changed for the better. Think about the first time you will see your baby daugther. You still have so much to live for!No one knows what the future holds, all you can do is be optimistic. for example, maybe my gf isnt my soulmate does that mean that all purpose is gone from my life? nope, because I know that eventually there will be a better day. There will always be a better day. That is something that I have found to be true. It sounds cliche but life is a rollercoaster lol.
  Something to start you off-
  make a new friend, start a new activity, do something new!
  
  In this life you need to be a fighter, not to be violent towards others, but to have the tenacity to tackle everyday, and every obstacle.
  You only have one life, you are an individual, no one can ever replace you, you are special. I know that you have something postive to contribute to the world maybe not today at 15 but you have so much growing to do. Don’t let your light fade.
  
  hundred of people can sit here and type all the reasons why you shouldn’t be so down but its ultimately your decision to have a change of heart. sometimes happiness isnt at your footsteps, you have to search for it. keep searching and be patient.
  (sorry this is so long)
  I hope it helps, Aleskar
  - written 7 months, 1 week ago

• I’m feeling troubled/suicidal
  

  hang in there like has ups and downs. purpose is hard to find sometimes, especially if you are young.For me, my motivation is God and my family. Now that might be different for you but one thing I do know is that you DO have a purpose but I think you just have to find it. your life can change in an instant for the better or for the worse. I say wake up and be thankful for the life you have. you only get one life,its nothing to be thrown away. take time to think about who you are, and what you want to do. try being optimistic; sometimes having a bright outlook changes everything.
  - written 7 months, 4 weeks ago

• My relationship with God.
  

  thanks a lot my friend :)
  - written 8 months ago

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