2007-05-17 06:50:33 on Toxic parents.
You’re an adult; unless I missed something. Working a part time job, and seeking to the psychotic environment created by your parents. If you really want out; find a full time job and make the necessary sacrifices to movr out on your own. In a sense everything we encounter in life is a game and the person who plays the game the best wins.
You’re loosing this game because you are playing by their rules. Learn to use what’s available to you to turn the game in your favor. If your parents are willing to give to hide or apologize for the abuse they alledgedly inflicted upon you let them give money. Save that money to help you move out on your own if that’s what you really want to do, but you need to be willing to sacrifce. Start off in a studio apartment with no furniture; something cheap but livable and take one step at a time.
My belief is that a child can blame his/her parents for their failures and the poor decisons they make for only so long. Once you become an adult (18)you have to begin to take control of your own life in oredr to find peace within yourself.
2007-05-05 17:12:33 on PHOBIAS- Oh, this should be FUN!
I think it’s called neverinthearmsofamanophobia.
2007-05-05 17:01:29 on PHOBIAS- Oh, this should be FUN!
Heights, Rats and dying someplace other than in the arms of an attractive
2007-05-03 18:35:55 on I’m having Trouble finding my way through life.
In order to give a heart felt and honest response I need more info!
2007-05-03 18:31:10 on How many times have you been ‘in love?
I think I’ve been in love twice, but I’m not sure. What is love? What love may be to you coud be totally different for me. I do know that it’s over rated what ever it is, because no relation requires more work or more compromise than a relationship that involves love. The psychological make of up of every individual gives love a different meaning. Some people measure love by the amount of pain that’s inflicted upon them or that they inflict on others; some measure it by the type and/or amount of sex they receive. I know that a care about several people, but I don’t know if I truly been in love anyone!
2006-12-29 15:41:33 on i have no confidence and i find that i hate been in
In order to have a good con you must have a good sell. The thing I try to teach people that I have direct contact with is “not to buy the sell”. Of course you will have references and good feed back you can refer to, to support your con; most cons of this sort will suduce you by offering minimul or no fees, and then the real sell begins. If M is desperate enough he/she will eventually submit to the sell only to find out that the gift they’ve purchased is an empty box.
2006-12-28 11:39:16 on i have no confidence and i find that i hate been in
No one can teach you self confidence over the damn phone. Please don’t buy into this bull_ _ _t. To many people out there are willing to take advantage of a persons weakness to turn a buck. Self confidence is innate; we all have it, we just need to learn how to tap into it. Anyone who truly wants to help you center yourself and find the confidence we all have deep inside will not be looking to profit from it; unless the profit they receive is the pleasure the derive from your success.
2006-11-27 12:53:14 on how do you talk telepathetically with some1?
I really don’t think boardom factors into it for a lot of us. Take me for instance, I’m totally fascinated by the way that people process thought and apply their own style of logic.
I seek insight to the thought processes of mankind in order to get in touch with my inner most self.
There’s a lot of people who will by that last line, and offer ways I can get in touch with myself without using my hands.
2006-11-26 05:44:44 on Does is turn you off when a girl makes the first move?
I have my moments, but they are fleeting:-)
2006-11-26 01:06:00 on how do you talk telepathetically with some1?
Right now your thinking; how many people will reply to this questions?
2006-11-26 01:03:52 on Hey anyone want to talk?
Hi Catty, are you ok? Tell me why your using this particular avenue to solicit conversation. Your 16, you should have a number of friends that you can chat with.
2006-11-26 01:00:33 on Does is turn you off when a girl makes the first move?
Only if your making the first move on an insecure man. In this day and age there is nothing wrong with a women making the first move, but be careful because guys can be idiots. There are some of us that will misinterpret the first move, but that misinterpretation should tell you something about the guy. You also have to be prepared for rejection, because the person may not be interested in you in spite of your visual appeal.
2006-11-26 00:49:51 on My 29-yo bf said he cares a lot about me, but isn’t
Please don’t catagorize while offering advice, it shows your inexperience. I’m a “guy” and I ‘ve compromised myself to a degree for every woman I’ve been with. Change and compromise is a two way street, but if she is content with him as he is ride it out; see where it goes, because there is no guarantee that things will be better in your next relationship.
When you met me I was who I am, now you don’t want me to be the person that got you interested in me. Does that mean that you saw what you wanted to see, and now you realize that the person you saw wasn’t me?
2006-11-24 18:16:23 on My 29-yo bf said he cares a lot about me, but isn’t
If you choose to settle you choose to live with the consequences. Men are interesting creatures for centuries we have been forced to detach ourselves from our emotions, and for some men it’s a hard process to change. Love isn’t easy, because when you love you compromise, and compromise requires change. Even though that is the only constant people fear it and seek ways to maintain the status-quo. If you are content with him as he is and feel that he may one day open-up to you emotionally hang in there. If you need that emotional commitment you may need to consider moving on. Try this; spend some time away from him (one or two weeks) and observe how he reacts when you get back together. Just let him know that you need some time to think, and that you would appreciate it if he allowed you the time to think about where your relationship is going. Being in love and loving someone is not always a choice, but admitting it is an entirly diffeent animal.
2006-11-18 14:34:04 on i have no confidence and i find that i hate been in
I have to wonder where some of you get your thought processes, and some of these alledged philosophical statements really don’t help anyone if they have to decipher the message to understand the meaning.
A persons heart felt response to any situation should be just that heart felt not brought forth from someone elses experiences.
The confidence you need takes time, and it’s ok to take your time, and someone out there believes you are as wonderful a person as I believe I am (Just kidding.) In time you will come to know that people can, do and will believe in you that will help you believe in yourself.