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• If there was a choice to die today knowing that I would only have 31 one years of life under my belt; or live another 105 years. posted (3 weeks, 3 days) ago
  I would chose to die today. I feel so badly that the life I’m living is not worth living and e…

• This one is hard to admit posted (4 months, 1 week) ago
  the more I live day in and day out the more I get the idea that my life is very very very not the li…

• Torn posted (9 months, 3 weeks) ago
  (I wrote this one early last year for someone on this site. He suggested to me at that time to post…

• I have been putting off making this post. posted (9 months, 3 weeks) ago
  but I guess I’m frustrated enough to post it now. On Christmas eve we got a bad ice storm. my …

• Is anyone here a fan of sword of truth books by terry goodkind? posted (1 year, 1 month) ago
  did you know that this first book “wizards first rule” is about to be made into a wee…

• Move Over Darling I’m In A Mood… posted (1 year, 1 month) ago
  And guess what… you helped me get there. LADIES: please tell me why men can give you flowers…

• Looking with your Heart posted (1 year, 2 months) ago
  (I wrote this a few years ago for some one it was wasted on. but I know here It would not be wasted)…

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rebeccalynn16's Top (2) Replies by other users' votes

• (1 vote) I once led a very busy life.
  

  I believe I can relate to this. Have you seen the new movie “Yes man” with Jim carry. it’s not as funny or silly as most of his movies; but it shows how when you start saying yes to things in your life how different you life can be. I always say no because I feel I have to be the responsible one. try saying yes to something you normally wouldn’t and go out a have some fun. fly a kite, go to the zoo, read a book under a beautiful shaded tree. make life fun for your self trust me it will do alot to fix your issue.
  
  - written 7 months ago – voted for by okei!

• (1 vote) My husband and I have been married for a little over two years.
  

  dear broken hearted,
  
  If it were me all the computer cables in the house would be slashed. but I have a tendency to over react. I would try to get the truth out of him. ask him why he is listed as single. and why he couldn’t tell you about it. I think you would know what the right and wrong answers to theses questions would be. My heart is with you I would be broken hearted as well. I am deeply sorry for your hurt. I would try counseling.
  
  - written 1 year, 1 month ago – voted for by mmsstw

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• Im going to a camp for 3 days and 2 nights and i get home sick REALLY easily…im really sensiteve about this stuff.
  

  julia I’m not sure If I have any advice for you.. but I get homesick too! I can’t go anywhere with out my husband I cry like a 2 year old. even thinking about going somewhere with out him I cry.. but there are times when I need a vac. and there is no way he can take time off.. I don’t go anywhere because I can’t have a good time I’m too upset. any way maybe if you find the answer to our problem you could let me know!! the only thing that may work for me is trying my hardest to have the best time where I’m going and if I end up crying at least I tryed!! good luck!
  - written 3 weeks, 3 days ago

• If there was a choice to die today knowing that I would only have 31 one years of life under my belt; or live another 105 years.
  

  it helps - but my problem is getting myself to believe that my future has not only a purpose but I will wont to fulfill that purpose. I’m lost. I don’t dare hope I will get what I want. getting what I want never happends.
  - written 3 weeks, 3 days ago

• So, I need help as well as advice on a situation thats been bothering me for a long time now.
  

  Wow what heart brake you must feel over all of this. It maybe going trough your mind that you did something wrong for him to want some one Else’s baby and not yours. but the way he treated you when you told him you were preg. is the same way he would have treated you even now if you were still together. Although you still love him you must move on and leave this in the passed. don’t go to his my space page, avoid seeing him at all cost, it will just open old wounds. take a vac. to help you forget and move on to bigger and better things. focus on what you want out of your life and then allow life to take you there.
  - written 2 months, 1 week ago

• Should I have went?
  

  your right… it was wrong of him to use your grampa to hurt you. lashing out at you is never a right thing for a boyfriend to do. alot is going on in both of your family’s; it’s really hard to deal with both issues. both of you are hurting right now and should have every right to have each other as a comfort. since you don’t; you should take a look at what the other is feeling and since each of you is hurting… maybe you can relate to each other and use this as an opportunity to become closer. if he can’t get over the issues, maybe you should rethink the relationship.(I always find this use full regardless of the depth of the love between two people. I’m not saying to you should brake up but use this as an opportunity to take a larger look at your relationship) at any cost to your relationship my deepest regret to you grampas health and my thoughts and prays are with you and him in your time of need.
  - written 3 months ago

• hi my names nigel and im a 15 year old boy and i dont
  

  it sounds to me you need to know your parents love you.. the way they are treating you is not helping your development. in fact it is paralyzing to your development. you may only be 15 but if you are on this earth you are not a mistake and you are not something that should have anything to do with regret. you were beautifully and wonderfully made, weather your parents know that or not. You should know that you are really something special. don’t believe what they say; try to get some help from a counselor at school.
  - written 3 months, 1 week ago

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