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• Should I stay? posted (3 weeks, 5 days) ago
  I’m in a bit of a rough patch. I’ve been dating a girl now for about 5 months. We are separate…

• My fiance and I just broke up. posted (9 months) ago
  Will she come back? My fiance and I were engaged for 5 months. We had a solid relationship and we w…

• Anyone know of any legit survey or paid to blog sites? posted (10 months, 3 weeks) ago
  As some may know from previous posts, I’m a poor college student trying to make some money o…

• I’m looking for a job I can do from within my dorm. posted (10 months, 3 weeks) ago
  Hey all, Currently I’m a full time college student and I’ve been looking around for a …

• She loves competition and loves me. posted (11 months, 4 weeks) ago
  I want this Christmas to be great! What should I get her? I have up to $200 to spend and I’d…

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• Should I stay?
  

  I’m not up for drama either, which is why when it’s over it’s over. I do want to give her a chance but it comes down to what she wants to do.
  - written 3 weeks, 5 days ago

• I feel like a total jerk…
  

  I would try apologizing to her a different day. Let her cool off a bit! I’m sure you did scare her since she is of a young age. Just be careful next time! You meant it out of clean fun, so don’t feel that bad!
  - written 3 weeks, 5 days ago

• Should I stay?
  

  Why is that? You mean strike first before she does? I do love and care about her and I want to give her a chance because once I end this, I’m not going back.
  - written 3 weeks, 5 days ago

• My fiance and I just broke up.
  

  UPDATE
  All during last week Sally and I were taking daily. Things seemed to be going pretty well. She made the comment that she was happy that we were still talking and how it would probably help us in the long run. I asked if there was a future for us once we both got settled and she said that she would want to be with me again once changes were made in both our lives. Then Thursday hit. My brother’s gf pulled a stupid stunt to bring attention to herself. I told Sally this out of frustration and she seemed very supportive. However, Friday we are talking and she had been acting wierd that day about things. I asked if the situation had changed between us and she said it had and wasnt sure we were going to work out in the future. She said she can’t be around someone like the GF and have her in our lives. I told her I felt like I was being punished and that I had no control over this other person and also wouldn’t let her around Sally or her son. This didn’t seem to be good enough.
  
  This turned into a bicker match and she got a bad attitude very quickly. It was at this point where I could see all the stress she had been dealing with was piling up and I began to see I was the outlet. We’ve normally been able to talk through things like this. She suggested it be best to not talk for a while and I told her to not give up hope on us and to have faith and for her to talk to me when she’s ready. I happened to be sick that day that this all happened. Sure enough, last night she texts me checking up on me and hoping I feel better.
  
  I don’t know what to think or if I should have any hope. She seems very stressed but hasn’t really shown any emotion. She tends to keep things inside but will time of zero communication bring this out? It’s so hard to not text her. I miss her so much. I just wonder if she will ever come back.
  
  I’m perfecting my letter, it’s just a matter of time before I give it now.
  
  Any help would be great.
  - written 8 months, 2 weeks ago

• My fiance and I just broke up.
  

  2. She doesn’t like my brother’s gf and doesn’t want her or her son around her though I have told the girl friend that she’s not allowed around Sally or my son.
  - written 8 months, 4 weeks ago

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