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don’t just let them borrow a pencil. engage them in convo, and go from there. you can’t just expect people to jump up and run to you to make a conversation. if you can, go sit outside, and marvel at the beauty of the world your in, and don’t compare it to the world you were in before. in essence, make the best of what you have. and don’t expect others to do for you what you should do for yourself.

as long as you get used to the fiber in the apples, it doesn’t back you up as bad. be sure to drink lots of water as well.

i’m controlling with my time, and everything i do has to be planned out. even what i’m gonna say when i make important phone calls. it bugs the crap outta people cuz i ask when are you gonna be here, and if they say in a little bit, i always ask how long is a little bit? it drives them nuts!

thanks. i’m trying to see if i can find someone to hold my things. and the way things are going, i may sell some of my stuff so i can go home.

family can’t help. they are two hours away, and i live in a small farming community in which i have only two or three friends. one is pregnant, and already stressed out enough, one is moving on the 31st, and the other has someone else living with them right now, and probably can’t afford to keep me too.

how old are you?

[quote somanywalls_solittle]my mom always had me go out and beat the tomato plants. we had more tomatoes than we could eat. so just go out and beat them a little.[/quote]

sorry.. hahahahahaha.. i have to giggle on this comment… not to be mean.. but i found it really cute… lol..[/quote]

lol it’s ok. my mom really did have me do that though. and we had so many tomatoes that we had fried green tomatoes at every meal! lol YUM man now i’m hungry for GFT

The.red.ice thank you so much! i’ll go check it out.

my mom always had me go out and beat the tomato plants. we had more tomatoes than we could eat. so just go out and beat them a little.

when your laying in bed think about relaxing. concentrate on relaxing your fingers and toes then your hands and feet then your wrists and ankles then your fore-arms and calves then your knees and elbows then your biceps and thighs then your shoulders and hips then then your stomach and rear end, then your chest and back then your neck and your mouth then your head. by this time you should be so relaxed that you fall right to sleep. it’s a yoga technique that always made me pass out.

I FOUND WHAT WORKS FOR ME!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! its crocheting. i’m making an afghan, and when i pick up the yarn and hook, my mind is no where near sex!!!

thank you so much. i’ll try it and get back to you on it.

thank you very much both xeno and betta. i’m not good at meditation….any thing specific i might need to do?

i am female, and i don’t have any signs of bipolar disorder. i do have an axiety disorder, but thats as far as i know. i was sexually abused in the past.

what kind of meditation techniques?