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It is an honour to be there for you, Me I am fine today, so nothing to moan about - sure you are relieved hay lolxxx
As long as you are strong enough to say no because he is NOT GOING TO TAKE ADVANTAGE OF YOU!!!! I will not let that happen at all.
You are wonderful and an amazing person and I really hope that we stay friends and that I can help you with everything that is getting you down. Life gets easier to handle, you just need some assistance at your age because you are still so innocent and such an easy target for morons. It is great being young, just really scary and confusing sometimes I think. Anyway, thank you for being you as you are wonderful and inspiartional.

ok ok i will!.. but yeah i know what you mean and thats the thing, i can see that this could all go horribly wrong but yea atm its really hard to pull away. I will just take it easy & see what happens but if he starts to make me do things i dont want to do then I wil be ready for it and will tell him straight out that im not interested.
anyway all these shouts have been about me… i feel bad! How are you going?
Is there anything I can help with or anything you want to just let off your chest? I’m here if you want to talk ok!
Thank you for being there for me =)

Just PLEASE PLEASE be careful okay that is all I can say. I know how that “just meeting a guy” feeling is and it is addictive. So enjoy it just take it slow and try and protect yourself as best you can.

Sorry, I was in another window when you asked and I missed the question in chat. Your post was caught in the mod filter for some reason… I saw nothing wrong with it so it is now up.
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Have these people said why you should not get involved with him?? You should really find out exactly why if you can before you get involved with a guy that is not good for you because that is going to make everything in your life 100 x worse. I was there when I was 17, it destroyed almost everything that “love” I had.

I am always here whenever you need someone alright, I will always be willing to listen to any problems that you are having and all the good stuff tooxx So just remember that YOU are not alone!!

Sweety I am so sorry I am late here. I could not get logged in yesterday, I forgot my stupid password… lolxxx _ not so bright hay?
Man, i realize it all just seems like so much for you to be going through at the moment. Last year of school is a tough one as you really are uncertain of what the future holds right? It will be alright though I promise, you just really really have to hang in there okay. You take one day at a time, look after yourself. Seriously, do what has to be done BUT make enough time for YOU!! You need to relax a bit, do something that you really enjoy - hell even if it’s just having a bath, do it. I wish that i could make you see that you are beautiful NO MATTER what that mirror tells you every morning. Living with body issues is very difficult, I know as i have done so forever. It does get a little bit easier with age, you feel more comfortable in your skin in a way.

Just wanted to thank ya for your comment. Yeah neither of them would want me dwelling like I am. Im sorry to hear about your 2 friends. If they arent willing to sacrifice time to see you then they arent the friends I would want to hang out with myself. Well hope it all works out and thanks again!

Wow. I just looked at your profile and noticed that one of your interests was cross country skiing! I’m impressed!

(And, at the risk of lecturing you in your own shoutbox, making yourself feel better by throwing up is a short term solution to the problem…you might want to find something that is going to help long term…OK, I’m done.) :)

Are you on a cross country team?

It is not bad memories at all and strangely I really want to give you advice. So i am, just going to say that you have only got up to 40 minutes before everything digests plus if you drink a lot of water after eating it helps a lot because there is something to make the food float up easier. You can also feel at the back of your throat there is like a little cleft thing, kind of flappy opening and you have to get behind that with your fingers to trigger the motion.
Okay i am an evil person for having said any of this but just do not do it too often okay??? I do it when I feel really full and it does make me feel better about myself. However it really is not healthy and can lead to many problems. Sorry that I answered you, just could not help myself!!!

Hi, answer my question to your post PLEASE!! I am someone who often makes myself sick and I just want to know why you want to start this cycle?