I think Dustin Hoffman says it best in his movie Mr. Magorium’s Wonder Emporium when the king dies in act 5 of William shakespear’s play he ends the life of the king with a simple and he died. there was no grand explanation of how he died and it took a genus to come up with “he died.” but those two word are still enough to feel sad and morn. because we know it is not the words “he died” that make us feel this way but the life that was lived up to this point. it is this life that you will Carrie with you. and although you will morn the death of your brother you will one day be able to talk about your brothers life, all the love and friendship that he passed to you and then end it with a simple he died. copeing with your loss with be hardest part of your days but remember the life he lived. it will help you cope.
I read your new post. hope you know I’m here if you want to chat or scream and what ever. let me know. I will send a funny your way if it will help. let me know. please know your not alone.
becca