chev.jame's shout trail with Fuzzy Pepper - Help.com

It takes time, Jellybelly, and patience . . . and making the other feel like he’s not walking on eggshells, and vice versa. Give it time. Lower your shields. We men have such fragile egos. It’s so easy for our self-esteem to take a hit and go down in flames. Be there for him. It’s the greatest feeling in the world when a man feels that he can really trust his mate . . . really trust her and know that he can tell her something and that she will still love, respect and want him. After some experiences we men have, it’s hard to believe that there are such women. We are afraid that if we stumble or fall, our wives will start looking elsewhere for a man. When a man feels grounded in trust for his wife, he will open up and reveal completely new dimensions of himself . . . beautiful dimensions. I believe that you can literally lead your husband out of the woods . . . with love and patience! Best of luck to you both!

Thank you. We are still not “out of the woods,” so to speak. It’s a daily struggle to stay together….but, for now, we are going to try.

Thank you for listening to me during my anon days :)

Jellybelly, I’m glad to hear that you and your husband are working things out! That’s much better than the alternative! There are people who divorce who still love each other, but somebody’s feelings get hurt and that person thinks the other person doesn’t love him or her. Once those things are resolved, real progress can be made! Good luck to you both!

Hi there….I was the person who posted anon about problems with my marriage in early December. I just wanted to let you know….

Also, you helped me immensely with your insight and kind words. Thank you.

For the time being, I am staying with my husband and trying to work things out.

Thank you,

~Jill

Hi, I looked at your profile and saw a website link there; tried to go to it and I couldn’t….maybe it’s ‘top secret?’ :)

JK…just thought I’d check out what knights templar are…