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Welcome back to help.com. You have been missed.

I see what you mean.

Oh I see, well for the moment im doing alright. Not getting alot of sleep which has been affecting my performance but besides that everything’s pretty good.

Hey chev. How are you doing?

Ahh thank you makes me feel a little better.
How are you?
Hope you are well.

My bf wants to get married. Is it timing or does he love me?? How are you meant to know the differnce, what you said is quite scary

hello sweetheart! waiting for an email from you.

Oh sounds intresting! On assignment in the ME :)
The islands are warm and sunny.
Glad to here you are well.

Hi, how have you been? Are you back in Canada now?

Thank you. We are still not “out of the woods,” so to speak. It’s a daily struggle to stay together….but, for now, we are going to try.

Thank you for listening to me during my anon days :)

Hi there….I was the person who posted anon about problems with my marriage in early December. I just wanted to let you know….

Also, you helped me immensely with your insight and kind words. Thank you.

For the time being, I am staying with my husband and trying to work things out.

Thank you,

~Jill

Thank you so much for helping with hjohnston(the invite i asked you too)YGG {HUG}},Kim :)

Hello Chev.Jame,

Have you been to Thep’s new site? http://socialhelpsite.ning.com/ I like it over there. Wish you would join.

I made a post to anonomous who closed his post. Here is the link. I hope he is still on line and will see it
http://help.com/post/235750-to-anonym…

yeah.. and we can change then things around us.. no one will do for us.. we know what is good for us.. we have to deal with ups and downs and we can have fun in the same time.. life is not hard … we make it difficult

i totally agree… i’m really lonely.. i’m feeling down many times.. but i know that my happiness depends on me.. if i want to be happy i can find a way.. tehre are a lot of things in this world which are good… and even if everything seems bad and far i look around me and i can find beauties which make me happy:)

yeah they do.. and this is sad… maybe he will stay alive… he closed the post so icouldn’t send my last advice.. taht’s his choice even though it is a wrong choice…

I really like Sherlok holmes ….. and i just want to mention.. i saw in your profile some things about God and love…. “God is love”

Hi Chev, it’s me - previously known as guiltybrat. I don’t know what happened but I was not able to log in. My password no longer worked and I even had to sign up for a new email account. I am doing well. I’ve had a few rough times but I think I handled them well. I hope you had a great Christmas and Have a Happy New Year!

Happy New Year!

All the best for 2009!

Hoping you have a blessed and lovely holiday!Take good care! God bless! You are a very special person! Hoping Santa gave you what you wanted for X mas lol. :)

It only takes the light from one candle to chase darkness away. Thank you for being that light in my life.
Bright blessings and Merry Christmas ~ Richard

Merry Christmas and Happy Holidays from Neutra

Happy Holidays Chev

I’m just popping in to wish you a wonderful Christmas and a Happy New Year. I won’t be around for some time as I’m going into hospital for a while. Be good, have fun, and if you can’t be good be careful! All my love, mums x

Hi, I looked at your profile and saw a website link there; tried to go to it and I couldn’t….maybe it’s ‘top secret?’ :)

JK…just thought I’d check out what knights templar are…

Thank you :)

Yea i know just like how people would tell a person like me to love my boobs because some girls pay thousands of dollars to have what you naturally were blessed with. I understand it just struck a cord i guess.

But yea i made an anon post but no one is replying and i want to know if i should write this guy how i truly feel or if it will only upset him

http://help.com/post/229417-what-if-i…

If you dont want to read it or respond i will understand

Even though you and the other members hurt my feelings on that post about the skinny girl and caused me to want to be single even more i need your advice because well… you know how to give it and i love them (sometimes lol). Thats if you dont mind

hi, Just wondered if you too are having troubles with having your replies not showing? Mine disappear as soon as I give them. Sad to think the posters will think no one cares to give a reply. Is this happening also to you? Help needs help I’m afraid.. lol :)

I just wanted to thank you for your advice. I really appreciate it. I was so worked up about it though by the time I got to talk to my bf I cried. He was very sweet and very understanding about it and I love him more than ever. Thanks.

Thank you for coming to assist on the cpl’s post. Much appreciated. I hope things work out for him.

Yes I have had my fair share of sunburns, SPF 45 and I are friends. I am fair skinned and the sun can be wicked in the summer.

Not cold here, I was at the beach today, sunny and warm :)

I hope so, Canadaa is home i presume

Could be! I still get emails for variations on the “Nigeria scam.” But I did read about the fake lotto scams . . . people are told they won but have to send in money to claim the prize. People can be such suckers! ;-)

Chev, I think this guy is hoping someone here bites and maybe try to “help” him claim the price. He is hoping for a sucker to come on line!

I hope all is well with you, :)
I should be sleeping by now however I am off tomorrow, I see insomena is all over the place :)

You’re give such great advice! I’d just like to say thank you for being so helpful.

are you online now?

Hey Chev! I went with my husband to his therapist. I didn’t like it. I stayed calm though. I felt attacked and maybe pressured. He wanted to know why I behaved the way I behaved on specific date. I didn’t want to talk about it. It’s not something I am proud of but I told him I didn’t know. That is the truth. I really don’t know why I did what I did. I do have a few ideas of maybe what was going on in my head but I’m not really sure. I told him this later and told him I don’t know if I’ll ever be able to tell him why. He wasn’t happy with that but he accepted it. I think he accepted that I don’t understand it myself. I also told him that I might not want to ever tell him even if I do figure it out. He and the therapist asked if I would be coming again. I told them I didn’t know. I don’t want to talk about the past like I have told you before and I think that is what we would be doing if I continue to go. I didn’t say much the whole time I was there. I didn’t want to get caught up in how I was feeling and start getting defensive and manipulative. I am leaning on the idea of NOT going to the decathlafun. I’m trying to accept that this isn’t about how this event effected me in the past with all the hurt but this is about him spending time with the “guys”, to have a little “jockularity” time and yes, to get away from the wife. I admit, I like to get away too sometimes but it’s not because I don’t love my husband. I also think that if I go I will still not be able to enjoy it because I will feel like I’m on thin ice the whole time. I know I shouldn’t feel that way and he is trying to help me not feel that way but I just can’t shake it. I guess I’m just not ready. I think I’m starting to be ok with that also - that I’m not ready and hope that some day I will be. A little good news is that I actually wanted to cuddle with him about a week ago and it felt nice. I hope I feel that way again real soon. Thanks for the link to the interview with God. I will read it soon when I have time. Another think I have been working on is my faith so I appreciate it. Will keep you updated as things go along.

Sure. Go ahead!

you left me some advice a while back and I was wondering if you had some time to chat

I won’t I promises. I have just had the most wonderful evening with my best friend we laughed so much. Who need men trouble hey. Thank you. X

Thank you for so much

Thank you for so much

Agreed, science in the medical world is to slow. I will keep you in my prayers. I am always amazed that people would consider ending their own life, I am never sure if it is realy just a cry for attention or true despair. I am sending happy thoughts your way. Have a blessed day
:)