That is a lot of weight and protection, you guys live in real danger real life, i fear even listening to all this. girls life is really horrible there. Thank God we are not treated like that. horrible places, feel bad for the women especially.
Kshatriya!! A warrior!!
This is related to Hindu religion but my religion is Sikhism, which preaches equality for both male and female, poor or rich, lots of white people have also converted into Sikhs, maybe you also know.
well no matter which faith one follows it should be teaching equality, peace and Love.
well i will have to admit that our men have changed, there are some with the old negative thinking but most of them have changed too. they are not like those men who won’t let their girls go out and all…we do have some freedom to live. rest to be honest i haven’t been with guys so i don’t understand how they treat their girls but my brother he treats his wife very nicely. they do fight at times which almost every couple does but the rest is he fine with her. but at least we are not like the other women who can not even look at a guy!!! or would take the pain of abuse.
If i was allowed to marry a guy out of my caste and religion i really would have asked you to make us meet somehow, but i know my parents would never allow me to marry a guy out of my religion. and i myself love my religion, though i respect all. but thanks for considering me that good to be able to be with a guy like your nephew. means a lot.
Glad you at least have a remedy. I got my lab results back and my pancreatic enzymes are back on the rise. I was told by both my gastroenterologist and primary care doc that if my pain became unbearable that I should go to the ER. I’m a little reluctant to do so simply because I’m always treated like a drug-seeker.
I am sorry to hear about your marriages failing because of the step children.
still no reply from the Embassy, though they are not accepting any more applications especially from the nurses.
i have decided to start BSC Nursing in India so that i can upgrade my diploma into a degree and keep myself busy in a better way.
there is only one thing that troubles me, because now i have thought to go for a single man not a man with kids, i just hope God won’t be thinking bad for me that I am moving away from the guy because he has kids and all, though i never made any promise with him, i am also restraining myself from talking to him…i know i have to stay away from him if i wanna go for another man, i don;t know why I just care for this thing that what would God be thinking about my decision not to be with him but to go for a better opportunity. I wish i could relax and think less like others, i just care for God’s thoughts the most. I hope i am not doing wrong in His eyes. Though i know you are like a father figure to me and you will always think for the best and what you suggested me to stay away from him and go for a single man is for my best. maybe God wants the same because He is also my father.
had to let this out with you. thanks for listening.
I hope that will be the 3rd good thing to happen to us in a long time. :) If he gets back in active duty soon - I’ll sing. And I sing horribly and I don’t care. :P
Had to get my old SUV towed today for Geico to assess the damages. Yeah it’s totaled, but they still want to see it. I kept it in great condition when it was working, so I hope they don’t try to con me and say it was a POS and only give me a little money. :/
Yeah, 15 year old driver with new permit and no skills. Her dad was with her, but I hope this teaches them both a lesson. Don’t speed up and run through a red light, and don’t let your daughter on a busy street on a Saturday with a new permit!
Going up to Phoenix this weekend to visit friends, yay me. You said you’ll be heading home for the summer, I bet that’ll be cooler than you staying over there roasting.
Oh that is a good feeling! We’re working towards being debt free ourselves. Slowly, but surely.
And I got 100% on my accident claim today! SO HAPPY! The 15 year old driver was found completely at fault, and me having the only witness really saved the day. So I will get the value of my vehicle as soon as I work out arrangements with USAA. YAY!
I am happy hubs has a job, too, even if they keep him late with making deliveries but it’s worth it for stability.
So that’s two good things now, we got our tax money AND the accident claim is in my favor. Now the third thing to complete the trilogy is if Jesse gets good news about his conditional release. Then this year will be AWESOME. :D
Ah thankfully we didn’t have to, we got the check in the mail 2 days ago. Yay!
Still nothing about the arbitration. Yeah my USAA rep got a strict talking-to from me, because she didn’t like to keep me in the loop. She understands now that she needs to let me know what’s going on because it’s my vehicle and I need to know if this crap is almost over with. So she’s calling me with arbitration results as soon as she gets them. Hoping for more than 50%!
Geico had the nerve to ask for 100% from me (which they won’t get anyway because their driver ran the red) so my rep says minimal 50% I will get but hoping for anything over 60%.
Still nothing with the Customs job or the conditional release. But we’re hopeful something happens at the very latest by July!
No worries. Hubs asked about the conditional release at his last drill this past weekend and they said it could take up to 5 months total. So from February, we should know by the end of July. His friend just got approved to go active duty and his took 5 months to go through. He was never prior service though, he only joined the reserves, so we don’t know if hubs will get the same answer.
The arbitration supposedly went through on the 15th and now we’re waiting for the outcome. It can take up until the end of May to know! Ridiculously slow. I like USAA but this waiting is horrible.
Still no tax money. So sad, they just sit on it to get interest from it! They got their part of the money, they need to give us ours. No matter how many times we call about it, they just say it’s a waiting game.
All this waiting! Uggggh!
And yeah, the car in Germany is all gone. The lady there confirmed she junked it and it’s no longer our problem. Now only if they’d helped my husband out when he asked for it a YEAR AGO.
Hope things start speeding up soon, I feel like I’m walking backwards in slow motion through molasses…
hello, how are you doing and how is your family, especially your wife?
I am trying to not think about tthat guy with kids….i know it is just because i am alone and desperate to be with a nice man, that is why i make such choices, but i am trying to find a better guy with whom i can have a little stable life and kids without any worries.
Hi there! Nothing much new here just seeing how you’re doing mostly. Cramped as usual? Sucks not to have nicer accommodations but it must be worth it for the work you do or else you wouldn’t be there, right? Hope you get to see your wife and family soon.
Hubs sent off the POA & money order to get the car off his record in Germany. We also reported the stolen bike to our insurance and they gave us the money to replace it, which was nice. It’s the first time we’ve ever had to report anything stolen so they said our rates won’t change, which is nice.
Do you know anything about car insurance arbitration? Funny story, I’d put off talking to the other party’s insurance for 2 months to settle with the 50% they offered me for my totaled vehicle because I didn’t want to deal with the stress, and it’s probably good now that I did - the lady told me that it’s gone to arbitration. My own USAA rep didn’t even send me an email to let me know this! Grrr.
Do you know how long they might take? I know I need to call my USAA rep to find out, but honestly, that lady helped me in the beginning then didn’t bother to write or call me back when I needed questions answered. I love USAA but she really doesn’t provide good customer service for her clients.
Still waiting to hear good news about the waiver, too. Hubs’ drill is coming up in a week or so, so he’s going to ask then about how much longer it might be until this 2 star general approves his conditional release to go back active duty.
I’m optimistic now but there’s still that looming feeling that for everything good that happens to us, something worse is RIGHT around the corner. You know? I hate thinking it, but for the past 2 years it’s been true.
Can’t wait until things start going good AND staying that way!
It is 4:00 am
think I have the house to my self but not sure
My Ex called me he wants me to sign papers for his car. He changed the address on both cars to his address. I think he is trying to pull a fast one on me. He threatened me, I hung up. He thinks he will get every thing he wants.
He is not going to his sisters as much as he was. I think there is a girlfriend, I don’t think the kids are hearing from him very much. He got mad when I said I was going to the registry before I sign anything
Wish you were home with E safe and sound.
my brother is getting ready to go through cancer treatment, after that he should be cancer free. saying prayers for us all.
So my mom laid into the social worker from the hospital who called to make sure my visit went well. My mom told her it didn’t and that they didn’t treat my pancreatitis and my mom said “that’s not true. She’s been hospitalized for it at that very hospital”