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• imy sister has been diagnozied with a condition known as umbillical endometriosis. posted (1 year, 7 months) ago
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• i left my previous bf (chris) but the bf i had 3 yrs before him (john) wants to be with me.
  

  what has been said is true. also search yourself as a person. this men say they love you yet they dog you, not one but you said in every relationship you have heard . Maybe you need to work on you, do some research. you sound like a very nice person.
  - written 1 year, 3 months ago

• I don’t know what to do my husband of five years
  

  You can forgive him if you choose but that does not mean you will easily forget. The pain, the disappointments the distrust will linger and will make you feel confused and even angry.
  
  The trust especially he has to earn it with time.Take each day at a time, choose to believe that he means what he says, however keep your eyes open, Communicate to him exactly what and how you feel. he should give you time to get through this.
  - written 1 year, 3 months ago

• There is a lady in my office.
  

  There is nothing you cant do if you will. your said infatution with her is driving her away even from being your friend. Actually withuot mincing words YOU ARE PISSING HER OFF. It is evident that she doesnt share your feelings and that she is a honourable woman.
  
  Get your act together. That woman is already taken. You can still enjoy her freidship if you want.
  
  AND WHY WOULD YOU EVEN THINK OF LEAVING YOUR JOB!!!!!! DONT YOU KNOW THAT THERE ARE WOMEN AS BEUTIFUL AND FUN AS THIS EVERYWHERE????. WHERE WILL YOU RUN TO?
  
  look hard and you will find your own fun woman.
  
  Irealy wish well .And what you are experienceing is normal. how far yopu entertain those thoughts makes the difference.
  - written 1 year, 4 months ago

• My daughter has been married for six years, My son
  

  This doesnt sound good to me. It sounds loudly like he doesnt respect or even love her like a husband should.And true, there could be someone else. mostly thieves”unfaithful” patners are very insecure and they will always try to put you down in whatever way they can so as to justify their action and not feel guilty about it.
  
  she cant just keep quite and take this lying down.Almost aways if nothing is done it only gets worse and could develop to physical abuse.
  
  Relationships like this really affect someones self confidence and selfworth and this could only make the husband disrespect her the more and even abuse her.
  
  Sadly as the mother you cant decide for her what to do at this juncture. she has to do it herself but you can concentrate on building where the husband has intentionally broken.
  
  Remind her that she is a special woman beautiful and intellegent. she needs to build her confidence to the brim before facing her husband . she also needs to be open for anything that develops from the talk.Even separation.
  
  She has a right to being happy and marriagge should not be a jail term.
  Im not an expert in this but its realy familia.
  wish her well and you too.
  - written 1 year, 4 months ago

• My wife left…she has been drinking too much and
  

  Your wife needs you. YOU. Not your anger at her parents or your judgment.YOU.Love is not enough by itself. her parents is one of the hardles you have to pass through to reach to her. Just as it has been said, it could be that there is more to this than you know.
  
  You may need to deal with what you feel inside about this whole issue first.your focus is to asist your wife through this i believe. Iknow you are a man and you expect “To fix it” and move one but this one needs time, patience and love.
  You could take some time off from your travels. spend time with her dont push, dont argue.it doesnt help. Be calm and focused on only helping her .
  I know this makes life uncormfortable for you but who said marrige is a bed of Roses!!!
  There are trials such as this that should be overcome after which your marriege should only become stronger.
  And there are lessons to be learnt. Dont miss them.
  Wish you well.
  - written 1 year, 4 months ago

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