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• I’m very sexually frustrated. posted (3 weeks) ago
  I seriously believe something to be wrong with me. This is usually a taboo subject for me, and IR…

• What pisses you off? posted (1 month, 3 weeks) ago
  What makes you cringe? What bugs you? I’m curious about what just sets people off; call it a …

• Does anyone know of any federal grants for college that I could apply for? posted (2 months, 1 week) ago
  I’ve been to FastWeb; didn’t get anything there. I lost my original scholarship due to…

• I used to be a devoted Christian. posted (2 months, 2 weeks) ago
  I went to church every Sunday and Wednesday, and I was involved in the youth program, and everything…

• If there are any weight trainers out there, please read this. posted (2 months, 2 weeks) ago
  I’m twenty-one years old. I’ve been lifting since I was fifteen. I weigh 218 pounds. My…

• I’ve never felt quite so lost in my entire life. posted (2 months, 2 weeks) ago
  Seriously. I haven’t. I’m not suicidal or anything like that. It’s just that every…

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• (1 vote) which is better, sex or love, only one please, thanks!
  

  [quote Yukonman]what is love…. baby dont hurt me… dont hurt me no more[/quote]
  
  I love me some Haddaway.
  
  And yes, love is definitely better. Making love beats having sex by a LONG shot. I’ve had both, but nothing tops looking down into the eyes of the girl of your dreams while making love, and knowing that no one else except for you can give her what you’re giving her (I’m trying to keep this G-rated so as to avoid an approval message).
  
  - written 1 month, 2 weeks ago – voted for by dcb_707

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• Help.com Anti Drama Club
  

  …uh, well, to answer the actual post, my grandma’s cancer went into remission yesterday. That was pretty sweet. I’m going to visit her soon!
  
  And yes, that is a nice outfit, and no, I don’t hate people I don’t know, so there’s the possibility I could hate you if I knew you….
  
  Just kidding!
  
  Have a groovy day everyone!
  - written 2 weeks, 3 days ago

• I’m so **** disgusted with all of the kids coming on here and telling us their experiences about their exploration into adult life.
  

  The thing is, not everyone was built the same way. Some people need a bigger push in the right direction for them. Not all young people have guidance from older people, and many more don’t know where to look. Yeah, I see how you’d find it annoying that kids come on here complaining or bragging about what they’ve done or been through, but it’s not up to you berate them. It’s up to you to gently talk sense into them. Relate with your own experiences. Give them that push in the right direction. BE THAT GUIDING OLD PERSON.
  
  That’s why I’m assuming most of these ‘kids’ are here. Not all of them can roll with the punches the way I’m assuming you can, so be a little more supportive to them. :)
  
  I know it can get frustrating the way some people can be so self-destructive or ignorant, and continue ridiculous behavior, but no two people are alike, and NO ONE is perfect.
  
  In fact, that’s what I love about our world. It’s not perfect; in a perfect world, there would be no heroes.
  - written 2 weeks, 5 days ago

• Can you tell me what 3 things you really really hate please.
  

  http://help.com/post/159328-what-pisses-you-off
  
  That should give you a couple of ideas. ;)
  - written 2 weeks, 6 days ago

• I’m very sexually frustrated.
  

  [quote Anonymous]Just trying to point out that you like to play. While you had a relationship that was emotionally fulfilling for many years (esp. considering your ages), maybe you all went too far too soon? And now you miss that part of the relationship a lot. There is a huge trust involve in a physical relationship, so finding another person who you click with emotionally and physically is not going to happen instantly.
  
  You can let your mind dwell there as much as you like, and it can distract you from doing well in school and missing days of work, etc. I think you should try to stay busy with work, school, friends and try each day to rule your urges, and not let them rule you. Or start a part time bartending job (but you’re not old enough yet) and live the wild life of someone who can party and get around with ease…burn out and lose sight of your dreams, and wonder how you got so old.
  
  I’m just saying the mind controls the thoughts. You recognize your pattern as a weakness, so occupy yourself. And follow Bailie’s advice.[/quote]
  
  Thank you for your honest opinion, I think. I do like to play.
  
  The breakup already has distracted me from so much. I’m old enough for a bartending job by the way, I just don’t spend much time in them. :) I’m not a partier and I’m not conspicuous, and I have lofty dreams and goals in sight. It’s just that this is seriously taking a toll on my character, or at least what I thought what my character was. I do appreciate your help, though.
  
  As for Bailie’s advice, I wish he had actually read the whole thing. You can’t expect to understand what I’m asking if you don’t read it all. And I whack it enough as it is. :)
  
  Thank you all for taking the time to reply. You may look at this as some college kid who has too much sex, but this is a gross alteration of my character, and I want to know why it happened. I’m working toward controlling my urges, and hopefully they’ll go away and I’ll be my old self again. I’m a good guy. I promise.
  - written 2 weeks, 6 days ago

• I’m very sexually frustrated.
  

  [quote Anonymous]I mostly think it is an age thing.
  
  Honestly, I’m just proving an anon issue here. You had a choice. I could see your profile and what you wrote there. With your previous screen names, I googled you and found you like sm**** and you make goofy soundtracks with your buddy on a certain social site that is popular amongst mostly the hs/college set.
  
  Really, the running should help.[/quote]
  
  I’m not quite sure if you’re insulting me or not, but don’t make judgments on my mentality or maturity level based on what I do to goof off on other websites. I’d appreciate something to help with the subject at hand.
  
  I’m already a regular runner. Anything else?
  
  [quote Sanni][quote nanny shark][quote Sanni]Two things to consider.
  
  a) Perhaps you need to think about how you are handling the break up with your previous Girlfriend.
  
  b) If you have been very sexually active and then suddenly stop it can be quite a shock to the system.
  
  Possible solutions, if you are at college you maybe able to speak to a student counsellor that would help you to deal with some of the emotional stuff.
  
  Secondly, develop an action plan to help with the physical longings, e.g. excercise etc.
  
  The positive thing is that you have acknowledged that this is not a way that you want to behaviour and this is positive, just give yourself time and the help that you need. I hope that it works out for you.[/quote]
  
  Thank you very much. After I honestly sat down and thought about it, that made sense what you said about my ex-girlfriend. She already has a new boyfriend. Maybe I’m just trying to subconsciously show her that I ‘don’t need her.’ I think I need to mull over this possibility some more. I have to stop behaving this way before I hurt someone.[/quote]
  
  The best thing I like about this post is that you are thinking about your behaviour and that you do not want to continue. I salute you for that.
  Sounds like when you sorted this out, finished your education, gotten some life experience, you will make some lucky girl a very nice husband and be a good father. I wish you well.[/quote]
  
  Thanks a lot. That means a lot to hear.
  - written 3 weeks ago

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