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*UPDATE* I’m fantastically over that break-up. Sorry, but I want to live life…so why the heck am I going to wallow over a guy who doesn’t want me? Seems like a waste of precious life to me! Oh man!!! Is it ever good to be free! I’m back world…and I owe a lot of that to the beautiful people here on this site!!! Thank you cattail, Fizz, 2greeneyes and chev.jame!!! ^_^

I’ll leave this description below for people who are going through it to see…YOU CAN OVERCOME TOO!!! If I can do it…I know anybody else can do it too!!! Best of luck everyone!

I am going through one of the most painful things ever to happen to me…the break-up of my dream relationship with my dream man. We hardly ever fought and when we did, they were so minor, we were back to bliss in no time. He took me to Japan where we both admitted it was the best time of our lives. We were going to be married in Japan next year. He was loving, supportive, faithful, reliable and a very hard-worker…too hard. He just got a promotion which meant he will now work every Saturday until he retires in 30 years. Those were my only days with him…gone now. I hate the place we live in, missed having time with him and let him know this when I heard I lost my only days with him, I threatened that my boys and I were going to leave because we were never going to have any time together now anyway….I didn’t mean it and I only said it because I love him so much. Well, he thought about this over the next few days…AND WHAMO!!! Now, he insists that we leave, he’s not in love with me anymore, we’re not a good match, he won’t even look at me and my negativity was just wearing on him…WHAT?!?!?! Why didn’t he tell me? I would have stopped. Four years…gone. Like that.

Where did you grow up?
Newark

Where do you live now?
North Myrtle Beach

What is the highest level of education you have attained?
In College Now...off for the Summer...

What subjects did/do you enjoy the most at school?
English, Astronomy

What's your favorite sport or sports?
Baseball

What kinds of jobs have you held? Industries too!
Lame ones

What hobbies are you into?
My children

What causes are you concerned about today?
Animlas, the Environment and Human Rights

If you claim a political party affliation, which is it?
So far left, I'm off the map.

Which religion (if any) do you follow?
Atheist

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