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Hmm.. “anything” huh?

I LOVE Ice cream. Even in the Winter!

How are you today?

Oh my dear, I understand how weird you can feel in your body when you change weight, but you need to learn to love yourself. I don’t know a single guy who would prefer fake breasts over real ones, regardless of the size.

There are SO SO many things to better spend your money on!

And here.. think of this.. every one of these women is seen as beautiful.. and they all are small chested!

Michelle Pffeifer
Lucy Liu
Julia Stiles
Piper Perabo
Jennifer Garner
Kristin Cavallari
Debra Messing
Clare Danes
Cameron Diaz
Kate Hudson
Natalie Portman
Zoe Saldana
Dido
Charlize Theron
Paris Hilton (and that girl could afford any size she wants!)
Gwyneth Paltrow
Sarah Michelle Gellar
Gwen Stefani
Kirstin Dundst
Keira Knightley
The Olsen Twins
Kristen Bell
AnnaLynne McCord
Kelly Ripa

Need I go on?

[quote Anonymous]It’s at night, I can’t run. I tried working out today but it didn’t really work. I have no chocolate (stupid healthy eating) and I have no one to talk to. I have cut before but not in a long time. I’m kind of lost right now.[/quote]

Ok.. isn’t that a tiny bit of a cop-out? You’re making excuses instead of really trying to get yourself out of the situation. Ok.. so you can’t run.. so do push ups or sit-ups then. Or run in place. Or take a cold shower. And there must be SOME kind of food with sugar or caffeine.. or some kind of comfort food around.

As far as someone to talk to… you have all of us here.

Okay hun.. take a deep breath. It’ll be okay, I promise. And cutting yourself isn’t going to change anything. All that will do is leaving you with some awkward conversations with whomever happens to see the cuts (and someone always does) and some scars to get mad at yourself for later in life.

Have you cut before? If so thats probably why you are feeling like you want to. Cutting releases endorphins in your body that, in a way, kind of get you high. You crave it later as a reaction when you are feeling low.

Lucky for you, there are better ways. Go for a run. Eat some chocolate. Have some caffiene. All of those things can mimic the effects enough to possibly help ease the feeling that you “need” to cut. Then.. once you’ve calmed down.. go talk to someone. Just get all this off your chest!

There IS a light at the end of the tunnel. I PROMISE!

[quote ☠WuT☠]I’m pretty sure I told you to pick ONE account and stick with it.[/quote]

Out of pure curiosity.. how can you this person has multiple accounts? Do you see the IP address, or do they just have a lot of the same info on their page?

haha.. you’d think they would figure out that the mods can see them regardless of being anonymous :-p

Yay!! :-D

[quote marksparian2]heyy my birthday is on the 29th of january and i realy wanted a ipod touch…but my parents never got me one one.. how do i concice them to ge me one[/quote]

you need to make your own post about that, as it really isn’t related to this and is a separate question.

well, as far as making the dreams stop, tell her to try writing them down when she wakes up. That always helps me to kind of work them out and they usually stop.

As far as the people she is trying to get away from.. I would maybe make a new post about that giving us more details… and hopefully we can help there.

lol D… why did you just invite me to my own post?

:-p

Has your friend been reading or watching anything that might have sparked this? Religious films/books? Twighlight? Anything like that?

Sometimes once we have a dream one time and it freaks us out we kind of get it stuck in our thoughts.. and then have other dreams regarding that dream because of it.

Another thing would be.. is there anything that she’s been feeling especially upset or guilty about lately?

I’m a little confused by why you are an 18 yr old high schooler with a year and a half left…

that said.. look.. you’ve got to understand that everyone goes through times in their life where they just don’t fit in their surroundings. Its not the end of the world. This is just a short little blip in the long life you’ll live. Soon you’ll move on and go to college, figure out who you are, make new friends, etc. and this will all just be something you once went through.

Why not use this time to your advantage? take this time that you have on your own here to figure things out about yourself. Try different foods, different activities, see different sites, find new music. Just use the time to discover yourself!

Yikes. Sorry! I seriously need to sleep more. lol.

Which Star Trek series was the best?
What was your favorite show growing up?
What’s your favorite Magazine?

Aww! Thanks SayItsSnowwww :-)

*sigh* gosh we’re awful dramatic aren’t we? Wars are nothing like WW2 now. (I know all that history as well.) Look at the facts. Do the research. I won’t even try and sugar coat it.. war is a horrible thing and its certainly something that will change your life. At the same time, its not the same world it was in the 1940s.

Troops in Iraq - Total 48,000 U.S. troops as of Nov 30, 2010. U.S. Troop Casualties - 4,433 US troops.

Not to mention.. you don’t necessarily even have to end up in the war. There are several divisions that will never go to Iraq or Afghanistan… such as Military Intelligence. There are also jobs such as a medic or a mechanic where you are likely to end up in the middle east but not on the front lines. You would be stationed at a base there, and yet still get deployment pay.

[quote i-dont-exist]
How many times a day do you wash your hands?
What age would you like to live until?
What are your thoughts on the afterlife?[/quote]

At least 6 or 7. sometimes a lot more.
Anytime now would be good. I’d better not live past my 70s though.. I’ll be ticked!
Heaven or hell.. the usual Christian view. MAYBE purgatory. Not sure on that one.