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General facts about me. Im 33. Fulltime Im in management. I am also a bartender. My first love was music. I play the drums and bass. Any other questions? Just ask.
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- (5 votes) ok this one’s for the ladies on help.com
Ok, Im not a women. But Ive given this advise before and no women has ever said I wrong by it. In fact many have complimented me for it.
When you engage a women in conversation, Ask her about her. Be interested in who she is. Even if you are shy, this works great. Get her talking about herself. Heres why it works……The one subject everyone is an expert on is themselves! Women often complain that guys arent interested in who they are, just how they appear. You will overcome that by being interested in her. Make sure you are paying attention, make eye contact and nod, even grunts to let her know you are listening.
If you can, make small humorous interjections. Women often complain guys take things too seriously. If you can make her laugh then she will think of you as a good guy to be with and around. Laughter=having a good time!
Dont be afraid to let her know you are ‘romantically’ interested. You dont want to be stuck in ‘friend zone.’ If shes telling you about herself and having a good time, your in…..
- written 5 years, 6 months ago – voted for by spiritedsoul, Mitzy★, Tobirocus, krezebebe, Seraph - (1 vote) He broke up with me yall!
Heres a guys point of view. I appologize in advance for this will come across harsh.
Hes too chicken to tell you he doesnt want you anymore, so he’ll say things like hes not sure if you two are meant to be together. Or the problem is him, not you. He needs time to think, or space, or something like that.
Translation, I dont want to be with you anymore. I dont want to hurt you, but I dont feel we should be together anymore.
Basically it means that he doesnt love you. You didnt do anything to make him never want to talk to you again so he feels guilty. He knows breaking up will hurt you, so hes trying to break up without hurting you.
- written 4 years, 5 months ago – voted for by rainy - (1 vote) I dont Understand.
I read something very deep on this subject in of all places a Spiderman comic years ago. (it stuck with me….) The character Peter Parker has always wanted to abandon being Spiderman. One issue he talked to a friend about why he didnt want to give up helping people. He claimed that even those who were suicidal, the ones jumping off of buildings that he would save, would reach up to him for rescue.
I know its a comic, not real life. But it is writen by real people. I believe that the authors were trying to show the human spirit in that statement. No matter how bad things can get, we all want to get through those hard times. Sometimes, we just need to feel like someone cares.
- written 4 years, 6 months ago – voted for by Junaid - (1 vote) ugh!
Love grows, if you give it the chance.
Its easy to let the initial emotion take you over. But relationships that start off moving too fast usually end in a head on collision of adverse personalities.
If you truly want to get to know someone, you have to give it time.
I admire you. That you see this pattern in yourself. Not many people can see themselves in this way. I used to do the same thing with women. Move too fast and scare them away. When I saw in myself what you are seeing in you, I chose not to admit my ‘love’ to someone verbaly.
I had relationships that the lady would tell me she loved me very early on. I would tell her this, “I would be lying if I said I didnt have those feeling for you. But I cant tell you its true love without giving us a chance to grow a little together. Its too soon for me to confess that kind of love. What I do love about you is how I feel when Im around you, how you look at me, how you hold my hand….etc….give me a little time…I’ll get there….”
- written 5 years, 4 months ago – voted for by Maximina - (1 vote) Is it wrong to love my dog more than my family?
As long as there is no peanut butter involved, No…..
- written 5 years, 4 months ago – voted for by ScreaminglyWonderful