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• grandpa died almost a year ago. posted (1 year, 7 months) ago
  i left samoa in 2001 and never went back. i left him crying in the living room, and when i finally c…

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• grandpa died almost a year ago.
  

  this was just about the most perfect thing i could have heard right now. it’s as if you took a bunch of my scattered thoughts and centered them into one clear focus. i do miss him terribly, especially as the end of the month rolls around.. but i also appreciate life for what it is. and you’re right: it is only as mortal (and immortal) as we allow it to be.. thank you so much for your time and your insight and true kindness. i was smiling the whole time i read your response.. soifua, kiddo
  - written 1 year, 7 months ago

• I’ve never been able to really “talk”
  

  i’m only responding because i have an older “half-brother” who only met his biological father last year, after 23 years of never setting eyes on the man. i don’t think your parents will be upset with you or question your loyalty & love. actually i’m pretty sure they knew this day would come, or at least they’ve already considered the possibility. you seem very open-minded, and i’m sure they witness this fact more than i have just by reading your post. with that said, if you let them know how you’re feeling, then they, as your parents, should easily understand why. my mom felt like my brother had the right to know - had the right to choose whether or not to let his biological father into his life. and in my personal opinion, i think that you should never hold yourself back from something your heart presses so strongly about. if you feel like you’re headed in the right direction with something, it’s usually because you are..
  
  peace & blessings..
  soifua,
  kiddo
  - written 1 year, 7 months ago

• grandpa died almost a year ago.
  

  i like that :)
  - written 1 year, 7 months ago

• grandpa died almost a year ago.
  

  i find it so easy to forgive others, but for myself the bridge just seems so tattered sometimes. i know that it’s the right direction; every now and again i just feel like my innerman doesn’t want to budge. but you are right.. embrace life nonetheless, pick up the pieces and run with them.. i always feel like my mistakes will own me sooner or later. but i think it’s time to start changing that mentality around..
  - written 1 year, 7 months ago

• grandpa died almost a year ago.
  

  you guys are just awesome, really.. it means so much that people i havent really made contact with are so cool as to take time out of their day to even respond to my ramblings.. ;) it really is pretty neat.. i like the openness of it. its made me smile a little. which was more than enough tonight.. :)
  - written 1 year, 7 months ago

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