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it seems like you’ve tried almost everything to stay away from this girl…but have u tried telling your parents so they can file a restraining order against her? i know this sounds extreme…but extreme times call for extreme measures.just try it…

ok…well usually, guys will talk to u about messed up stuff that u normally wouldn’t talk to anyone about (u know…perverted stuff). and then they’ll kind of shy away and play hard to get…this usually means they’re flirting with u (or just messing with ur head)it really depends on their tone of voice…

it really depends…what kinds of things does this guy do that makes u think he likes u?

idk

i have been through the same thing ur going through listen to people’s advice and think positively. even though right now it may not seem like it, there are people in ur life who care about you and who love u no matter what. when i feel this way i have a list of other things i can do (coping skills), that help me a lot. sometimes what i do is try and distract myself with the computer or talk to my friends and tell them how i’m feeling, or talk to my therapist, or even call my psychiatrist and tell them what’s going on and how i feel, and they either tell me to think about it and ask myself if i really want to hurt myself or take my own life…and when i think about it, i ask myself,”is this a reasonable way to deal with my problems?” and i tell myself,”u r a strong person who is loved and cared for by everyone u know.” so please spare ur young life and live a full life filled with memories that will last u a FULL lifetime.

i hope this was helpful to you
~greendayluvr14

don’t you remember………….that post that said,”Do you remember me

Do you remember what I used to be

You were my best friend

I loved you to the end

Slowly though sorrow began to take control

And hopelessness invaded my sould

You tried to save me

But I just couldn’t see

Finally you couldn’t take anymore

And you walked through the gates at heavens door”?

u should definitely talk to her about it. leaving her be would make matters worse because your friend probably also burns herself because she’s feeling lonely or left out from the rest of the world because of depression. i have been depressed once or twice so i know exactly how that feels. what she really needs right now is someone to be at her side and talk to her. so, just talk to her whenever you can and hope your friend eventually breaks this habit.

i hope this was helpful to you and your friend.

~greendayluvr14 :p

wow………u guys r so wierd……….

before you go right up and talk to them, first think of things that will boost up your confidence. tell yourself you have nothing to be embarassed about and hopefully these things will help you.

~greendayluvr14 :p

what usually helps me is
break my heart by hilary duff
since u been gone by kelly clarkson
calling all angels by train
almost by bowling for soup
american idiot by green day
your beautiful by james blunt
your every color by train
give me life by daniel powter
free loop by daniel powter
bad day by daniel powter

i hope these songs help you too

~greendayluvr14 :p

well, first you need to have itunes, then you need to have songs on your itunes,then you need to connect your ipod to your computer using your cord. when the ipod is connected and you have itunes open, it will put the songs onto your ipod, but don’t disconnect your ipod until the little window in your itunes says ipod update is complete……okay to disconnect

The Earth,My Butt,and Other Big,Round Things
Love and Other Four Letter Words
Vegan,Virgin,Valentine
(all by Carolyn Mackler)

does anyone else close to her know about this?this is something that may be very dangerous for your friend.have you tried to talk her out of doing this? maybe if you talk to her and help her to make a wise decision in this situation,she might come to her senses and not move in with this guy.i advise you to keep your friend safe, but don’t get in the way of her happiness in the process.if i were in your situation, i might also seek professional help.
i hope this was helpful to you. good luck!
~greendayluvr14 :p

anything that’s wierd al, green day, or dance music.

you r absolutely right, that does get annoying. especially when they post it anonymously, then u can’t even ask them what their post was about.GRRRRRRRRR!